THIS WEEK TULSA GAYS

The OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group meets on campus on Tuesday evenings at 6 PM, open to OSU Tulsa students and the broader community, and it is not a club meeting with an agenda or a networking event or anything that requires preparation. It is an open gathering where you can talk about what you're going through, listen to others do the same, and exist in a room full of people who already understand without needing you to explain yourself from the ground up before they'll engage with you. If you're queer and in Tulsa and you've been feeling a little isolated, which is one of the most common and underreported experiences in this community, this room on Tuesday nights at the Neill Center was built for exactly that. You don't have to be in crisis to come. Sometimes you just need to be around your people, and that is a completely sufficient reason to show up.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

Tulsa Area Prime Timers meets at the Equality Center for a relaxed social hour built for exactly the kind of night where you just want to sit, chat a little, and not perform. It's a small, familiar room, so nobody's sizing you up, and leaving early is always fine if that's what you need. Think of it as a soft landing back into being around people. Get there right at 7 while folks are still settling in, that first ten minutes is the easiest time to slide into a conversation.

Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series at Central Park, 1500 S Main St, Broken Arrow. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

Ask Me Anything Claire Sbanotto at Gradient at Gradient Innovation Hub. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Get there early if you want the calm version before the room fills up. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Lunch Specials at Elgin Park at Elgin Park Brewery. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Lunch Special at Empire Slice House at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Taco Tuesday at En Fuego at En Fuego. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Jerk Chicken Special at Sisserou’s Restaurant at Sisserou’s Restaurant. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary - Free Admission at 108 Contemporary. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts - Free Admission at Living Arts of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

OSU-Tulsa Wellness Center hosts fitness classes all semester long including classes for Yoga, Tai Chi and Core & Recovery. Classes are taught in the fitness studio located in North Hall 117 and are for ALL fitness levels. Classes are free for all OSU students, staff and faculty.* Fall 2026 Fitness Class Schedule Yoga: Mondays at 1 p.m.Tuesdays at 3 p.m.Fridays at 12 p.m. Tai Chi: Mondays at 2:30 p.m.Wednesdays at 12:30 p.m. Core and Recovery Tuesdays at 12:30 p.m. *Must have c.

Granite Rapids Moon is playing at Circle Cinema, and it's the kind of film that asks nothing of you but showing up, no small talk quota, no dress code, just a dim room and a story that unfolds at its own pace. That makes it a genuinely easy first outing if crowds or chit-chat usually keep you home. The Circle's intimate theater means you're never fighting a stadium crowd for a decent seat. Get there for the 12:40 showing about ten minutes early, grab an aisle seat, and enjoy having a whole afternoon to yourself, sugar.

See the Oscar-nominated Pixar classic back on the big screen at the Circle in celebration of the 20th anniversary of the film, and the Route 66 centennial celebrations! Special screening Sat 9/5 with Michael Wallis and Magic City Books - Tickets on sale now for film screening at 3pm, and come early for book sales and signing in the lobby starting at 2pm! Magic City Books will have copies of Michae Showtimes: 12:50 PM, 5:10 PM.

Willem Dafoe stars in the new film from Magnolia Pictures, coming to the Circle on Fri 8/28! Special screening Sat 8/29, 3pm - see the film then enjoy a live poetry reading and Q&A from Oklahoma-based poets! Rilla Askew, Paul Austin, Phetote Mshari and Zhenya Yevtushenko will read new works after the film screening and take questions from the audience. Presented by host Michael Wright, member of t Showtimes: 1:00 PM, 3:10 PM, 5:20 PM, 7:20 PM.

Join the Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling as we observe a new twist on Labor Day! Stop by our table to make a friendship bracelet for you and/or your friends, get information about forming and maintaining friendships, and grab some fun giveaways!

Join Career Services in building a great resume in preparation for the career fair. During this event you will receive a flash drive with a resume template preloaded to give you that fresh start to your resume. You will then be walked through, step by step, to drafting an application ready resume. RSVP on Cowboy Central. At the Fall 2026 Career Fair, Employers will have the option to host on-campus interviews directly following the fair. Make certain that your resume is ready and in.

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Think of Happy Hour at in the raw vū as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. It's happening at in the raw vū on 2026-09-08, 3:00 PM.

Taco Tuesday Special at The Hunt Club at The Hunt Club. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Happy Hour at PRHYME Bar is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. Catch it at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse on 2026-09-08, 4:00 PM. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

French Hen Happy Hour is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. The French Hen on 2026-09-08, 4:00 PM is where you need to be. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.

Happy Hour at Saturn Room is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. It's happening at Saturn Room on 2026-09-08, 4:00 PM. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.

Trivia night, which is the most reliably good weeknight activity a bar can offer and I say that with complete conviction based on extensive personal research. You form a team, you give it a name that is funnier than you planned when you were doing it quickly, and you spend two hours discovering both how much random knowledge you have accumulated in extremely specific categories and how little you know about other things you thought you had a handle on. The gay case for trivia is entirely straightforward: we disproportionately dominate the pop culture, film, fashion, and Broadway rounds, we have the vocabulary to make every team name a pun, and we are genuinely excellent company during the rounds we don't know. Make a team with strangers or bring your crew. Name it something that gets a visible reaction from the host when they read it aloud. Buy a round when you win. This is what weeknight social life is supposed to look like.

HotMess Sports Mobile: Free Corn Hole Open Play at Oyster City Mobile. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

SALT Yoga at Guthrie Green gets you outside, breathing, and moving without a single word required, which makes it the gentlest possible way to be around your people. It's a starter social in the best sense, low stakes, friendly room, and if you need to slip out after class instead of lingering, that's completely fine. The green itself is gorgeous at that hour, so even the warm-up stretches come with a nice view. Arrive by 5:45 to grab a mat spot near the back if you want to ease in unnoticed, and bring your own mat and water, baby, the grass gets real real fast.

Get Noticed - Website Traffic at Gradient at Gradient Innovation Hub. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Eric Tarr at The Hunt Club at The Hunt Club. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Open Mic Night at Gypsy Coffeehouse and Cyber Cafe - Sign-up 6:30 pm - First Artist at 7 is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win.

Open Meditation - Tues. at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Going solo to Join Tulsa Flyer and Magic City Books celebrating the release of Taking Care: The Good Life of Robert J. LaFortune at OU Schusterman Center Founders Hall, 4502 East 41st St is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one.

Hear “Spamalot” coconut hooves on the Circle Cinema screen before they arrive at the Tulsa PAC! The Circle is partnering with Celebrity Attractions for a special one-night screening of Monty Python and the Holy Grail (1975) on Tuesday September 8 in conjunction with the upcoming run of Spamalot at the Tulsa PAC from September 15-20. Before the movie begins, there will be trivia with prizes - inclu.

Rabbitt and the Roses at The Hunt Club at The Hunt Club. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Impromptu “Indian Taco” - Taco Tuesday (pre-Monty Python movie meetup-eat up) at a local cinema. Film screenings are a specific kind of shared experience that streaming has made rarer and therefore considerably more valuable. Being in a room full of people seeing something together, especially a documentary, creates a particular kind of conversation afterward that simply does not happen anywhere else. Independent cinema has always been a queer space, and the audience at screenings like this is exactly the crowd worth being around. Show up a few minutes early so you get a good seat. Stay through the credits. Talk to someone on the way out about what you just watched. That is what these evenings are for.

Employee Convocation (No Classes) at Tulsa Community College. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

EMG research study sign-up at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Cycle With Katie at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Flag Football Registration at University of Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness at University of Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

Immigration Updates - Town Hall Series at University of Tulsa. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Free Tuesday Lunch at St. Philip Neri at University of Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Baptist Collegiate Ministries Mentor Lunch at University of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Wesley Men’s Group at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Student Organization Trainings at University of Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

French Conversation Group at University of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Yoga With Leta at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions at University of Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Graduate School Virtual Drop-in Event at University of Tulsa. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Pre-Health Interview Prep Workshop at University of Tulsa. Making something with your hands is one of the most reliably satisfying things a human can do, and workshops give you the thing that is hardest to manufacture on your own: a prompt, a space, and other people working alongside you, which is usually all the structure you actually need to finish something you've been putting off. Gay people, who are statistically over-represented in creative fields, occasionally need the reminder that being creative does not require a portfolio or a finished body of work to show anyone. Show up. Make a thing. Judge it generously. You will leave with something you made and probably a few new acquaintances you did not have when you walked in. That is the whole point of coming.

Back to School with Best Buddies at University of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Wesley Study Night at University of Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

September Gallery Hours at Living Arts of Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

HOPE Testing. Low barrier and judgment free. Bring a friend if that makes it easier.

Lambda Unity Group is an LGBTQ+ AA meeting at Fellowship Congregational Church, and the thing that makes it specifically valuable is that you walk in already understood. Recovery is hard enough without also having to explain yourself before someone will fully engage with your story, and this meeting is specifically for LGBTQ+ people in recovery, which means you can talk about the parts of your experience that are uniquely queer without code-switching or softening the edges or feeling like a footnote in a room that wasn't quite built for you. If you are in recovery or considering it, this is one of the most affirming spaces Tulsa has to offer for that work. Check the listing for the current time. Show up. You belong here.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

Shy? Perfect. Transgender Men's Support Group (Private Group) runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. It's happening at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on 2026-09-09, 7:00 PM. This is the heart of queer Tulsa. The front desk will point you to whatever you need. New in town or newly out? Start here.

Going solo to “Back for Blood: Never Whistle” and “Still Sovereign: Land, Law, Memory”. Live performance by flautist Aryn Ward (Mvskoke/Yuchi). at Oklahoma Center for the Humanities is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one.

Monty Python & Holy Grail. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Get there early if you want the calm version before the room fills up. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Grim House Open Mic at Grim House. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Get there early if you want the calm version before the room fills up. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Little Garden Explorers at Philbrook is a gentle morning in the gardens, built for slipping in quietly, finding your own patch of shade, and letting the activity come to you instead of the other way around. There's no small talk quota here, sugar, no dress code drama, just growing things and a room that's happy to let you exist at your own pace. Philbrook's grounds are gorgeous this time of year, so even a quiet morning on the edges feels like a full outing. Arrive right at 9:30 when it opens and drift toward the back garden paths first, that's where the crowd thins out fastest.

Going solo to “A Dozen Loops: The Radical Voice of Woody Guthrie” + “Tom Paxton: A Car Full of Songs,” + “The Melody of Riot: Jay Farrar, Son Volt, and the Legacy of Woody Guthrie,” at Woody Guthrie Center is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one.

Going solo to Permanent Exhibits and “Thin Wild Mercury: Dylan 1966” + “Face Value” at Bob Dylan Center is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one.

Lunch Specials at Elgin Park at Elgin Park Brewery. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Lunch Special at Empire Slice House at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary - Free Admission at 108 Contemporary. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts - Free Admission at Living Arts of Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

21 and Up - Chrysalis Salon & Spa - Free Admission at Chrysalis Salon & Spa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Midweek Meditation (Zoom only) at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Tai Chi at NORTH HALL. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Happy Hour: $1 off glass of wine & local beers - $4.50 mules AND 1/2 price apps with any bar purchase! at The Chowhouse asks nothing of you but showing up. No small talk quota, no dress code drama, just a room that's happier with you in it.

Shy? Perfect. Happy Hour at Cabin Boys Brewpub runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Cabin Boys Brewpub on 2026-09-09, 3:00 PM is where you need to be. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.

Happy Hour at in the raw vū is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Find it at in the raw vū on 2026-09-09, 3:00 PM and roll in like you own the place. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

Happy Hour at En Fuego is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Find it at En Fuego on 2026-09-09, 3:00 PM and roll in like you own the place. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.

Think of En Fuego Happy Hour as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. It's happening at Tulsa Arts District on 2026-09-09, 3:00 PM. Wander the district, pop into whatever's open, and let the night find you. The Arts District rewards people who show up curious.

See the Oscar-nominated Pixar classic back on the big screen at the Circle in celebration of the 20th anniversary of the film, and the Route 66 centennial celebrations! Special screening Sat 9/5 with Michael Wallis and Magic City Books - Tickets on sale now for film screening at 3pm, and come early for book sales and signing in the lobby starting at 2pm! Magic City Books will have copies of Michae.

Willem Dafoe stars in the new film from Magnolia Pictures, coming to the Circle on Fri 8/28! Special screening Sat 8/29, 3pm - see the film then enjoy a live poetry reading and Q&A from Oklahoma-based poets! Rilla Askew, Paul Austin, Phetote Mshari and Zhenya Yevtushenko will read new works after the film screening and take questions from the audience. Presented by host Michael Wright, member of t Showtimes: 3:20 PM, 7:40 PM.

HotMess Sports Columbia: Free Kickball Open Play at Kanis Park Rd, Little Rock, AR, United States. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Join the Wellness Center and get mobilized! In this hands on workshop you will better understand how your body moves and ways for you to work and improve you mobility. Mobility Workshops will be on Sept. 9, Oct. 7 and Nov. 11 from 5-6 p.m. Register by emailing tulsa.wellness@okstate.edu with your name and CWID number.

Think of Open Mic @ New Story Brewing as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Catch it at New Story Brewing on 2026-09-09, 6 PM CST.

The 2026 Irish Hooleys: "Cassie & Maggie" at Shared by Cabin Boys Brewery. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

HotMess Sports Tulsa runs this free open play session so you can test out the league vibe before committing to anything, no skill required and no team to join yet. It's kickball on a real field with real people who are there to laugh more than they're there to win. Bring a water bottle and wear shoes you don't mind getting dusty. Show up right at 6:30 for warmups, that's when new faces get folded into a group the easiest.

DJ | Gus at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Karaoke night, and before you tell me you can't sing I need you to understand that this is the least relevant information you could possibly offer, because karaoke has never once been about singing ability and it is not going to start tonight. It has always been about picking the song that has been living in your chest for years and getting up there and delivering it like you are closing a Broadway run, regardless of what your actual vocal range is doing at that particular moment. There is a reason gay bars have had karaoke nights since forever, and it is because the combination of a microphone, a crowd of people who are genuinely rooting for you, and zero consequences for ambition creates a specific kind of permission that is genuinely rare in adult life and worth finding whenever you can. Put your name in early because the list fills up. Pick something you would be slightly embarrassed to admit you love this much. That is always the right song. The crowd will meet you there if you mean it.

This is a laid-back social dance night at Club Majestic built exactly for the person who wants to be around the crowd without being ON the dance floor solo. It's friendly, it's forgiving, and nobody's grading your two-step, sugar. The room fills in slow, so you've got a real window to ease in before it gets loud. Best time to have the best time: slide in right at 10:30 for opening numbers when the floor's still loose, post up near the bar rail so you've always got an easy exit if you need one, and let yourself stay exactly as long as feels good.

Paint the Animals Blue at Tulsa Community College. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Student Resource Fair is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. Catch it at Tulsa Community College on 2026-09-09.

EMG research study sign-up at University of Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Flag Football Registration at University of Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Shy? Perfect. Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-09. You do not need to be good at it, that's the whole point. Bring a friend or make one at your table.

Prepare for the Fair: How to Research Companies at University of Tulsa. Community festivals are exactly what Tulsa needs more of: reasons for different kinds of people to be in the same outdoor space at the same time, doing the same thing, which is looking at things and eating food and talking to strangers and being reminded that your city is more interesting than your usual route through it suggests. The queer community shows up for local festivals because we understand that visible participation in the life of your city is how you build the version of it you actually want to live in. Walk slowly. Talk to vendors. Try the food from the booth you've never tried. Buy something local. Leave having learned at least one thing you didn't know.

101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle at University of Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

WOW - Worship on Wednesday at University of Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

HIIT Pilates With Amber at University of Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions at University of Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

CAPS: Anxiety Toolbox Group at University of Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Yoga with Jamie at University of Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

League of Legends Varsity Team Tryouts at University of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

September Gallery Hours is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. Find it at Living Arts of Tulsa on 2026-09-09 and roll in like you own the place. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.

Archers at The Vanguard, 222 N Main St, Tulsa, OK. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

Think of YBR Luau Party!! as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. It's happening at Event by YBR Pub on 2026-09-09. Yellow Brick Road is Tulsa's only lesbian bar and one of the last in the US, and everyone is welcome. The gay-guy crowd tends to skip it, but it's an inclusive home for the whole community.

Fall Willowswish Camp Haunted & 😈 at Camp Willowswish. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

The New Kidz at Club Majestic, 124 N Boston Ave. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

DRAGNIFICENT! Is Club Majestic's weekly Thursday night showcase, hosted by the one and only Shanel Sterling alongside local favorites and the occasional visiting queen. It's the kind of show that turns a random Thursday into an event, full stop. You get consistency and surprise in the same night, since the lineup shifts but the energy never does. Get there before the house lights dim so you can tip in person, and don't be shy about picking a spot near the stage, that's where the show finds you.

Twisted Arts Film Festival at Circle Cinema. Film screenings are a specific kind of shared experience that streaming has made rarer and therefore considerably more valuable. Being in a room full of people seeing something together, especially a documentary, creates a particular kind of conversation afterward that simply does not happen anywhere else. Show up a few minutes early so you get a good seat. Stay through the credits. Talk to someone on the way out about what you just watched. That is what these evenings are for.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

Happy Hour! is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. 302 South Frankfort Avenue on 2026-09-10, 3 PM CST is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.

This is a business networking mixer, but the real move here is that solo attendance is completely normal, so you can post up, sip your drink, and ease into conversations at your own pace. The people-watching alone is worth the trip, and if a conversation clicks, wonderful, if not, you still had a nice evening out. Nobody's tracking who came with who. Arrive at 5 sharp and grab a spot near the food table, that's where the small talk starts easiest.

Show up to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with nothing but your two hands and whatever half-finished hobby you've been too shy to try in front of people. Nobody's grading you, sugar, this is a room full of folks who also don't know what a French knot is. The best part is the quiet company, not the finished product, so let go of the pressure to make something Pinterest-worthy. Get there right at 6 and grab a seat near the supply table so you can eavesdrop your way into a conversation before you even mean to.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

Grease at Theatre Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking.

Storytime at Philbrook at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

Fish Feeding at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

Willem Dafoe stars in the new film from Magnolia Pictures, coming to the Circle on Fri 8/28! Special screening Sat 8/29, 3pm - see the film then enjoy a live poetry reading and Q&A from Oklahoma-based poets! Rilla Askew, Paul Austin, Phetote Mshari and Zhenya Yevtushenko will read new works after the film screening and take questions from the audience. Presented by host Michael Wright, member of t.

Cars 20th Anniversary at Circle Cinema, 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa. Film screenings are a specific kind of shared experience that streaming has made rarer and therefore considerably more valuable. Being in a room full of people seeing something together, especially a documentary, creates a particular kind of conversation afterward that simply does not happen anywhere else. Independent cinema has always been a queer space, and the audience at screenings like this is exactly the crowd worth being around. Show up a few minutes early so you get a good seat. Stay through the credits. Talk to someone on the way out about what you just watched. That is what these evenings are for.

The Kangaroo Crew at Foolish Things Coffee. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

HotMess Sports Columbia: Free Corn Hole Open Play at PT's 1109. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Live Music Thursdays at The Vault at 620 S Cincinnati Ave, Tulsa, OK, United States, Oklahoma 74119. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

Fitness on the Green - YMCA Low-Impact at Guthrie Green. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Trivia Night is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. 223 N Main St on 2026-09-10, 6 PM CST is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

Open Mic @ Uncle Bentlys at Uncle Bently's Pub & Grill. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

2nd Thursday Game Night: A Singles Social Event at Studio Nine18. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

DJ | Gold Cat at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Green Country Bears Monthly Meetup at Restaurant (varies, check website). The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Circle Cinema is partnering with Tulsa Opera this season, continuing with Little Women (2019) on Thursday September 10! See the film at Circle, then see the opera on stage November 21 and 22. Tickets for the film screening on sale now, $11 Circle members and $13 non-members. Keep scrolling for tickets and more info to the Tulsa Opera staging of Little Women in November. Greta Gerwig’s star-studded.

Live Music Thursdays @ Roof Sixty Six at 121 S Elgin Avenue, Tulsa, OK, United States, Oklahoma 74120. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

WAITLIST ONLY!! Final Summer Sippin Series: Trailer Trash Edition 🍻☀️😎 + 🚐 is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you.

Shut Up and Write co-working session. The premise is simple and genuinely excellent: you show up, you don't talk to anyone, and you write. For writers who struggle with distraction (everyone) and accountability (most people), being in a room full of other people who are also silently working is surprisingly effective because the social contract of the space keeps you at the page when you'd otherwise drift. The queer community has always produced extraordinary writers, probably because having to narrate your own existence from scratch before anyone else will do it for you builds the muscle in ways nothing else quite does. If you have something you've been trying to write, this session gets words on the page. Show up. Write. Don't talk. Leave with actual progress to show for it.

Shy? Perfect. Paint the Animals Blue runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Catch it at Tulsa Community College on 2026-09-10. You do not need to be good at it, that's the whole point. Bring a friend or make one at your table.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. Tulsa Community College on 2026-09-10 is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.

Think of EMG research study sign-up as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-10. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

If crowds drain you, Flag Football Registration is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. University of Tulsa on 2026-09-10 is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

Episcopal Campus Ministry Morning Prayer Time at University of Tulsa. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Going solo to Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Find it at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-10 and roll in like you own the place. You do not need to be good at it, that's the whole point. Bring a friend or make one at your table.

Core With Leta at University of Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

September Gallery Hours is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. It's happening at Living Arts of Tulsa on 2026-09-10. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.

Join Jennifer Casey in her workshop "Exploring Design: Make Your Own Stickers!" Students will create their own custom designs on paper and see their ideas come to life in portable artwork that can go anywhere, from laptops to water bottles, and anything in between. Students will create their own stickers using copy paper, drawing utensils, parchment paper, and packing tape. For all ages and skill levels.

Creations in Studio K 2026 at Studio K. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Damon Darling is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. It's happening at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa on 2026-09-10. Sit close to the front and laugh out loud. The front rows get the best crowd work, and live comedy hits different in a small room.

TAFF Opening Night Party Featuring Paisley Fields | Whittier Bar at The Whittier Bar. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

LOW TICKETS Fox N’ Vead at The Vanguard, 222 N Main St, Tulsa, OK. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

Tulsa Eagle's Latin Night with DJ Bleiz brings the heat through the speakers, not through any pressure on you to be the center of it. It's the same easy Eagle energy, just dressed up in a Latin beat that'll have your shoulders moving before your brain agrees to it. Come to soak it in, sugar, not to audition. Best time to catch it right: arrive around 9:30 to grab a good spot at the bar, let the music work on you slow, and if a rhythm grabs you, follow it, nobody's watching that closely.

Bad Boys On The Block at Club Majestic, 124 N Boston Ave. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

Tulsa Eagle's White Party with DJ Haze turns the whole room into one glowing sea of white under the lights, and the vibe is pure "be here, not perform here." DJ Haze keeps the set moving without ever needing you to prove anything on the floor. This is the kind of night where you can lean on the bar, nurse a drink, and just watch your community glow around you. Best time tip: wear white (obviously, darling), arrive by 9:30 before the crowd thickens, and grab a spot near the bar where you can people-watch without ever feeling on display.

Queer Women’s Collective: September Meetup at Mother Road Market. Community festivals are exactly what Tulsa needs more of: reasons for different kinds of people to be in the same outdoor space at the same time, doing the same thing, which is looking at things and eating food and talking to strangers and being reminded that your city is more interesting than your usual route through it suggests. Walk slowly. Talk to vendors. Try the food from the booth you've never tried. Buy something local. Leave having learned at least one thing you didn't know.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

AFFIRM is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy built specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. Free, weekly, in the Wellness Room at the Equality Center. If you know a young queer person who's struggling, this is the program. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.

HIV+ support runs on community, and this group has been holding it down every Friday for years. Potluck format, wellness check-ins, real friendships. Bring a dish, leave with a few new numbers in your phone. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.

Going solo to Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elote Cafe is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Catch it at Elote Cafe & Catering on 2026-09-11, 7:00 PM. Go hungry, tip generously, and talk to the table next to you. Half the fun is the people you end up sharing it with.

In the Garden of Sin : A Nine Inch Nails Cabaret` at. Drag is Tulsa's most reliably spectacular live performance art, and this is your invitation to stop watching clips on your phone and actually be in the room where it's happening, which is a fundamentally different experience that no screen has ever fully managed to replicate. The lights, the music, the specific commitment of a performer who is giving you everything they have, it hits completely differently when you are standing there in front of it. Get close to the stage if you can. Bring singles because tipping your performers is not optional, it is the contract. Cheer loudly and mean it. Drag shows in Tulsa are run by real artists doing real work, and showing up and being present and putting money in their hands is how you support that work continuing.

Art Crawl on 66 (Red Fork) at Historic Red Fork District, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

The Aaron Spiers Jazz Orchestra - Album Launch at LowDown Tulsa. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking.

Hey everyone, Let's meet up for a movie night at Guthrie Green! Guthrie Green is showing **Top Gun** as part of its **free** Movie on the Green series. We'll start meeting at 7:00 PM to find a spot together, get settled, grab some food or drinks if you'd like, and have some time to socialize before.

Family Nature Walk at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

OSU LEAD Week is a collaboration between BOK Financial and Hargis Leadership Institute that offers leadership development through workshops, networking, community engagement and fun activities. As part of OSU LEAD Week, all students are invited to a financial seminar happening here at OSU-Tulsa! Steve Wyett, Chief Investment Strategist for BOK Financial & OSU alum, will discuss navigating financial markets and offer insight on personal finance. Registration for Markets 101 is encouraged.

Tulsa Oilers at Bok Center. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Backyard BBQ Fridays at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

DJ | Oreo at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Tulsa Live Music Showcase featuring Mingo Drive and Mellosplat at 473. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

$5 Friday Nights at Shared by Skates Roller Skating Entertainment Center. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Films at the Museum: Matilda (1996) 30th Anniversary at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

DJ | Gus at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Temple 202 with Zac White Band at Shared by Kelly Tipton. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

Paul Bogart at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Full Flava Kings at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Diamond Rio at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Going solo to Karaoke Night is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Find it at 223 N Main St on 2026-09-11, 8 PM CST and roll in like you own the place. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

Practical Magic 2/Dinner at Hideaway Pizza. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

This September, Graveyard Shift celebrates director Brian De Palma with screenings of two of his most-loved movies on his birthday weekend. A master craftsman of suspense, De Palma’s visual trademarks and command of the thriller genre are on full display in BLOW OUT, playing Friday, September 11, and in BODY DOUBLE, playing Saturday, September 12. Tickets for BLOW OUT here, $13 Circle members and.

Friday Night CANASTA - HAND & FOOT. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Cox Movie Night: Toy Story 4 at Gathering Place, 2650 S John Williams Way, Tulsa, OK 74114. Film screenings are a specific kind of shared experience that streaming has made rarer and therefore considerably more valuable. Being in a room full of people seeing something together, especially a documentary, creates a particular kind of conversation afterward that simply does not happen anywhere else. Independent cinema has always been a queer space, and the audience at screenings like this is exactly the crowd worth being around. Show up a few minutes early so you get a good seat. Stay through the credits. Talk to someone on the way out about what you just watched. That is what these evenings are for.

Ray Wylie Hubbard at Cain's Ballroom. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Broken Arrow Rose Festival at Tulsa, OK. Community festivals are exactly what Tulsa needs more of: reasons for different kinds of people to be in the same outdoor space at the same time, doing the same thing, which is looking at things and eating food and talking to strangers and being reminded that your city is more interesting than your usual route through it suggests. The queer community shows up for local festivals because we understand that visible participation in the life of your city is how you build the version of it you actually want to live in. Walk slowly. Talk to vendors. Try the food from the booth you've never tried. Buy something local. Leave having learned at least one thing you didn't know.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Your Ticket to the PACE - VanTrease PACE 30th Anniversary Celebration at Tulsa Community College. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

September Gallery Hours is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. It's happening at Living Arts of Tulsa on 2026-09-11. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.

Once a month we come together and hear people tell TRUE (funny, serious, sad, harrowing, interesting) stories about their lives. HOW DOES A STORY SLAM WORK? Every event has a theme, and everyone in the audience is invited to share a personal story related to the theme. This month the theme is KARMA. Plenty of stories can be molded to fit this theme, so BE BRAVE and come and put your name in the hat! If you have a story you want to tell, leave us your name at the door. Every.

Casii Stephan Americanafest Send Off Show at Mercury Lounge. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Sean Patton at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Live stand-up comedy is one of the most consistently underrated night-out options in any city, largely because a good comedian in a room full of people who all decide to laugh at the same moment together is a weirdly communal and unexpectedly human experience that is genuinely hard to replicate through a screen. Gay audiences are notoriously excellent comedy audiences because we recognize when something actually lands and we reward it generously and specifically, which is the kind of feedback a comedian actually learns from. If this comedian earns the room, they will know it. Get there early enough to order something before the show starts. Sit close to the stage because it is always a better show from the front and you deserve the better show.

Club Majestic Friday Night. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Chalk It Up/Rose Festival at Broken Arrow, OK, United States. Community festivals are exactly what Tulsa needs more of: reasons for different kinds of people to be in the same outdoor space at the same time, doing the same thing, which is looking at things and eating food and talking to strangers and being reminded that your city is more interesting than your usual route through it suggests. The queer community shows up for local festivals because we understand that visible participation in the life of your city is how you build the version of it you actually want to live in. Walk slowly. Talk to vendors. Try the food from the booth you've never tried. Buy something local. Leave having learned at least one thing you didn't know.

Hairitage (18+) at The Vanguard, 222 N Main St, Tulsa, OK. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

Studio 54-inspired drag brunch serving disco hits, sparkling looks, and queer brunch energy It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

Elote Drag Brunch at Elote Cafe & Catering, 514 S Boston Ave. Drag is Tulsa's most reliably spectacular live performance art, and this is your invitation to stop watching clips on your phone and actually be in the room where it's happening, which is a fundamentally different experience that no screen has ever fully managed to replicate. The lights, the music, the specific commitment of a performer who is giving you everything they have, it hits completely differently when you are standing there in front of it. Get close to the stage if you can. Bring singles because tipping your performers is not optional, it is the contract. Cheer loudly and mean it. Drag shows in Tulsa are run by real artists doing real work, and showing up and being present and putting money in their hands is how you support that work continuing.

Circle Cinema's Second Saturday Silent Series rolls out a Route 66 centennial tribute this month, projecting a piece of old-road Americana the way it was meant to be seen, on a real screen, in a real room full of people who showed up for the same quiet magic. No dialogue means no small talk required, just you, the flicker, and a shared hush with strangers who get it. It's the gentlest kind of "going out" there is, honey. Best time tip: get there by 10:45 for a good middle seat before the room fills, and stick around after for the inevitable lobby chatter about how good it looked on the big screen.

This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

Happy Hour! asks nothing of you but showing up. No small talk quota, no dress code drama, just a room that's happier with you in it. 302 South Frankfort Avenue on 2026-09-12, 3 PM CST is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

I Can’t Act with World Stage Theatre at Tulsa Community College. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking.

Second Saturday Half Day Practice at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Get there early if you want the calm version before the room fills up. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Meditation at the Museum at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

Docent-Led Tour: Collection Highlights (10:30am) at Philbrook Museum of Art, 2727 S Rockford Rd, Tulsa. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

As America celebrates the centennial of Route 66 this year, the Second Saturday Silent Series will pay tribute by screening films from 1926 all year long! The Second Saturday Silent Series invites you to can experience movies like they did a hundred years ago with authentic accompaniment on a vintage theatre pipe organ! The movie accompaniment will be played by Bill Rowland, and walk-in music by M It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

OK: CHRISTIAN CONTEMP CLASS - Hosted by Turning Pointe Dance of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Mid-afternoon is the sweet spot, busy enough to feel alive, quiet enough to talk. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Luxury Concert Experience at Tulsa, OK, United States. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

"All You Can Write Is What You See," an all-ages creative writing workshop, is coming to the Woody Guthrie Center on Sept. 12, at 2 p.m. The workshop will give participants an overview of Woody\'s biography and his music as written work, focusing on his lyrics and how they were derived from personal and learned […] \n.

Brunch at a local spot. Brunch is technically a meal but functionally a social institution that the queer community has been perfecting for decades and has no intention of ceding to anyone. The format is food that's a little indulgent, drinks that arrive before you're fully awake, and conversation that reliably goes longer than you planned for when you sat down. There is no better start to a Saturday or Sunday than brunch with people you actually like, and even brunch with people you're just meeting tends to work out because the table arrangement makes conversation mandatory and the mimosas make it easier than usual. Show up hungry. Order the thing you'd normally talk yourself out of. Leave full and slightly warm. That is the entire plan and it works every time.

Think of Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Catch it at Foolish Things Coffee on 2026-09-12, 3:30 PM. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

LIVE MUSIC!!! Band Name Here at Tulsa, OK. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

Happy Together - Spring Show at Shared by Rachel Horsley. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

DJ | Oreo at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Sean Patton is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Find it at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa on 2026-09-12, 6:00 PM and roll in like you own the place. Sit close to the front and laugh out loud. The front rows get the best crowd work, and live comedy hits different in a small room.

DJ | Gus at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

The 66 Kicks Improv Comedy Show at a local comedy club. Live stand-up comedy is one of the most consistently underrated night-out options in any city, largely because a good comedian in a room full of people who all decide to laugh at the same moment together is a weirdly communal and unexpectedly human experience that is genuinely hard to replicate through a screen. Gay audiences are notoriously excellent comedy audiences because we recognize when something actually lands and we reward it generously and specifically, which is the kind of feedback a comedian actually learns from. If this comedian earns the room, they will know it. Get there early enough to order something before the show starts. Sit close to the stage because it is always a better show from the front and you deserve the better show.

Sons of Sterling at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

DJ | Kelevra at Hard Rock Live Tulsa. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Evening Concert: Beatles Tribute to the Music of Revolver at Guthrie Green. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

This September, Graveyard Shift celebrates director Brian De Palma with screenings of two of his most-loved movies on his birthday weekend. A master craftsman of suspense, De Palma’s visual trademarks and command of the thriller genre are on full display in BLOW OUT, playing Friday, September 11, and in BODY DOUBLE, playing Saturday, September 12. Tickets for BODY DOUBLE here, $13 Circle members a.

Second Saturday Coffee Cupping at Vast. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

The Bison Bash: Travis Kidd, The Bison, Krislyn Arthurs. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Urban Sketchers Tulsa meet-up at Mother Road Market. Urban Sketchers is an international community of people who draw the world around them on location, in public, as it actually looks right now. Mother Road Market is an excellent place to do this because the indoor food hall setting gives you food, coffee, interesting faces, and enough variety to sketch for hours without running out of subject matter. The queer case for Urban Sketchers is simple: any group of people who carry sketchbooks into public spaces and draw strangers without judgment is self-selecting for exactly the kind of interesting company we tend to find. You do not have to be skilled at drawing. Sketching on location is about looking closely at what's actually in front of you, not about performing. Show up with a notebook. Leave with a Saturday memory you made with your hands.

Paint the Zoo Blue at Tulsa Community College. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Going solo to September Gallery Hours is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Find it at Living Arts of Tulsa on 2026-09-12 and roll in like you own the place. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.

Ms. Val and The Soul Session Experience (6:30 p.m.) at LowDown Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

The Smokin' Oaks at Mercury Lounge. Bring a friend or bring nobody, sugar. Both work here. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Shake It Up Saturday. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Bad Boys On The Block at 124 N Boston Ave, Tulsa, OK. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Drag Me to the Movies: Pee-Wee's Big Adventure at Circle Cinema. Drag is Tulsa's most reliably spectacular live performance art, and this is your invitation to stop watching clips on your phone and actually be in the room where it's happening, which is a fundamentally different experience that no screen has ever fully managed to replicate. The lights, the music, the specific commitment of a performer who is giving you everything they have, it hits completely differently when you are standing there in front of it. Get close to the stage if you can. Bring singles because tipping your performers is not optional, it is the contract. Cheer loudly and mean it. Drag shows in Tulsa are run by real artists doing real work, and showing up and being present and putting money in their hands is how you support that work continuing.

Goodbye June - TROUBLE FOR ALL 2026 TOUR at The Vanguard, 222 N Main St, Tulsa, OK. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

This is a straight-up tribute to Dolly Parton, live show, plus a look-a-like contest for anybody bold enough to wig up and compete. You don't have to bring a costume or a conversation starter, you just have to bring yourself and clap along. Somebody's going to nail that rhinestone jumpsuit and you deserve to see it happen in person, baby. Get there a little before 5 so you can grab a seat with a real sightline to the stage, that's where the contest energy lives.

This is an open talent night at Club Majestic, doors at 9 with the show kicking off at 11, so there's real room to ease in before anything starts. Going alone here is a genuine power move, you get a corner, a drink, and a front-row seat to whoever's brave enough to grab that mic. It's the kind of low-commitment night where watching is just as fun as participating. Get there with doors at 9 to snag a good standing spot before the 11pm crowd surges in.

TAFF Closing Party Featuring Branjae & DJ Kylie (FREE EVENT!) at Event by Twisted Arts. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking.

Karaoke Brunch! Is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. It's a Sunday thing, around 10 AM CST, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.

All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services. All Souls in Tulsa is one of the most LGBTQ-affirming congregations in the city, explicitly welcoming and radically inclusive in the way that actually means something rather than just being a line somewhere in a mission statement. Services run at 10:00 AM and 11:15 AM. If you're spiritual, questioning, agnostic but curious, or simply looking for a community that does not require you to check your identity at the door before they will engage with you fully, All Souls is worth showing up to. Many queer Tulsans have found genuine long-term community here. Walk in knowing nothing. You will feel the difference from the moment you're inside.

PIANO WITH VENABLE & MEYER at Tulsa Symphony. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking.

HotMess Sports Knoxville: Free Sand Volleyball Open Play at Victor Ashe Park. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Arrive in the first half hour if you want to settle in before the crowd lands. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Two Eyes Movie Tulsa Screening with Live Q&A at Circle Cinema. Film screenings are a specific kind of shared experience that streaming has made rarer and therefore considerably more valuable. Being in a room full of people seeing something together, especially a documentary, creates a particular kind of conversation afterward that simply does not happen anywhere else. Independent cinema has always been a queer space, and the audience at screenings like this is exactly the crowd worth being around. Show up a few minutes early so you get a good seat. Stay through the credits. Talk to someone on the way out about what you just watched. That is what these evenings are for.

Join us for Yoga Nidra, a guided meditation experience often called yogic sleep. With a deep guided relaxation, you'll be invited into a state between wakefulness and sleep where the body can restore, the mind can quiet, and the nervous system can reset.

Matt Axton and Bad Moon at Tulsa Time House Concerts at Tulsa, OK, United States. Live music in Tulsa is better than it gets credit for, and this is the kind of show worth actually leaving the house for. The experience of being in a room when a performer is doing something real is fundamentally different from a streaming playlist, and you already know this because you have felt it before in a room that was working. Gay music fans have always been at the front of the room because we show up, we care, and we remember the setlist. This artist deserves that kind of audience. Be that audience. Arrive before the opener ends because openers are often worth it. Find a spot you can hold. Put your phone away for at least three songs. Let the room do what rooms do when music is actually working.

Hey everyone, come join me for a relaxed Sunday afternoon of bowling and hanging out at AMF Sheridan Lanes. This is a casual, low-pressure event, you don’t need to be outgoing or experienced. Whether you want to bowl, chat a bit, or just be around other people, you’re welcome to come as you are.

Tulsa Day Center Meal. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Roll in after the first rush and you will walk into a room that is already warm. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Carbs, cocktails, and a crowd that treats a Sunday like a runway, honey. Come with an appetite and a compliment ready for a stranger. Early birds get the good booth and the first round before the line wraps the block.

Sunday Showcase. Show up, take up space, and let the room come to you. That is the whole assignment. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

JD Simo at The Vanguard, 222 N Main St, Tulsa, OK. Gay bars are not just bars. They are the physical proof that we exist, that we have always existed, and that we deserve a room that genuinely belongs to us without conditions or asterisks. Showing up to your local gay bar, even just for one drink on an otherwise unremarkable night, is participation in something that matters more than it might look like from the outside. The bartenders know the regulars. The regulars will talk to you if you give them any reason to. The music is usually better than you expect. Show up. The room is better when you're in it.

Monday Movie Night at 1338 E 3rd is the friendliest place to dip a toe back into being around people, honey, no pressure to mingle, just a couch, a screen, and folks who get it. This is the training-wheels social, low stakes, easy exit if you need one, so there's no reason to talk yourself out of it. Come as you are, sit where you're comfortable, and let the movie do the talking for the first hour. Best time to arrive is right at 6 PM before the good seats go, and if you're new, just say so, this room specializes in making that easy.

LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.

On view through Thursday, October 1, 2026. The Alexandre Hogue Gallery presents LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness, an exhibition of landscape paintings by UTulsa alumnus Josh Butts. Butts’ creative practice spans a range of media, including drawing, editorial illustrations, oil paintings and large-scale murals. He is also the founder of the graphic design agency Scrambler […] \n.

Vintage Barbie Museum - 12 Different Collectors at Vintage Barbie Museum, Pop Up Shop. Art openings and crawls are where Tulsa's creative community actually gathers, and the crowd they pull skews curious, inclusive, and interesting in the specific way that people who show up for art tend to be. Walk slowly through the space. Look at everything for longer than feels strictly necessary. If something genuinely stops you, take the time to figure out why. The queer community's relationship with visual art is long and well-documented: we have always been in the studios, the galleries, and the front row at openings. This is your crowd. Show up and find each other. Buy something if you can. Talk to the artist if they're there, because most of them genuinely want to talk to you. That is what these evenings are for.

Late Fame brings Willem Dafoe to the Circle in a new Magnolia Pictures release, the kind of prestige drama that plays so much better on a real screen than your laptop, sugar. It's a special screening, so this isn't a weeks-long run, catch it while it's actually on the schedule. Circle's lobby is small and cozy, perfect if crowds usually scare you off, you'll never feel lost in a sea of people here. Grab your ticket ahead of the noon showing and get there 15 minutes early to snag a seat near the aisle, easiest exit if you want a breather.

Cars is back at Circle Cinema for its 20th anniversary, the Oscar-nominated Pixar classic that hits different on a real theater screen than it ever did on your couch. It's pure comfort watching, no heavy lifting required, just Radiator Springs and that gorgeous animation looking better than you remember. This is a sweet one to bring a niece, nephew, or just your own inner child, honey, nobody's judging. Show up by 12:30 for the 12:40 screening so you can settle in before the lights go down, and sit center-back for the best sound.

Join everybody’s favorite green Claymation hero, Gumby, and his faithful pal Pokey as they stretch the boundaries of imagination (and bone structure) in a solid block of newly remastered adventures from the original 1957 series. A treasure of mid-century stop-motion animation, Art Clokey’s original Gumby shorts have been remastered in sparkling 4K by Gumby Central for the ultimate claymation exper Showtimes: 3:10 PM, 7:30 PM.

Happy hour, and I know that happy hour sounds like a modest proposition until you understand how it actually plays out in practice. The drinks are cheaper than they will be later in the evening. The crowd is loose and early in their night and therefore at their most approachable. The barrier to showing up is low enough that you will actually do it, which is the most important variable in the entire equation of going out. One drink becomes two. Two becomes someone suggesting dinner somewhere nearby. Dinner becomes the kind of Friday night you are still talking about the following week. You know how this goes because you have been there before. Start at happy hour. Let the evening find itself from there.

Happy Hour with Free Pool + $3 PBR Tallboys all day at Caz’s Pub is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Caz’s Pub on 2026-09-07, 5:00 PM is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.

Select showtimes on sale for special screenings benefitting local community partners each night! Additional showtimes coming soon. Fri 8/28: 7:30p with Keep Oklahoma Beautiful Sat 8/29: 7:00p with Up with Trees Sun 8/30: 3:00p with Tulsa Botanic Gardens Mon 8/31: 7:30p with The Sustainability Alliance Thu 9/3: 7:30p with Tulsa Urban Wilderness Coalition 1h33min - Drama - Not Rated - Engl A happily.

Monday Night Jazz. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Labor Day | OPEN UNTIL 5 PM at Discovery Lab. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Members-Only Early Access Hours at Discovery Lab. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Little Lab: Early Learners Program (Ages 0 - 4) at Discovery Lab. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Labor Day (College Closed) at Tulsa Community College. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 at Tulsa Community College. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

EMG research study sign-up at University of Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Flag Football Registration at University of Tulsa. Come as you are, stay as long as it is fun, and leave whenever you like. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Gilman Scholarship Open: Get up to $5,000 for Study Abroad at University of Tulsa. Good odds on interesting people and no pressure to perform for any of them. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

New Issue of The Collegian Published at University of Tulsa. The kind of plan you can say yes to without rearranging your week, honey. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

International & Graduate Student Kick-Off @ St. Philip Neri at University of Tulsa. Low stakes, easy exit, and a decent chance you leave in a better mood than you arrived in. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Super Smash Bros Crew Tryouts at University of Tulsa. Not every good night announces itself, sugar, and this is one of the quiet ones worth showing up for. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.

Fall Season Infusion Class at 410 N Main St.,Unit A,Tulsa,74103,US. A reason to put on real clothes and be somewhere other than your couch, darling. Check the time before you go, then give yourself a few extra minutes to find parking. The queer community has always shown up for things worth showing up for, and the best rooms are rarely the ones that announce themselves ahead of time. Interesting spaces attract interesting people. Go find out who is there.