THIS WEEK TULSA GAYS

May 11 — May 17, 2026

Nothing to do in Tulsa?
Sounds like a straight person problem.

Gay Score 🦩 Mostly straight 🦩🦩 Gay-friendly 🦩🦩🦩 LGBTQ-friendly 🦩🦩🦩🦩 Very LGBTQIA+ 🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩 Super gay

Friday

May 15

9:00
AM
Free Drop-In Therapy Sessions
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 15, 2026 | 9:00 am - 5:00 pm Low barrier, NO COST drop in therapy sessions available only for those aged 18+ at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Call or text 918-205-4018 to schedule or just drop in during open hours. About Tifany Oslin, LMSW Tifany Oslin (she/her) is a Licensed Master Social Worker providing affirming mental-health support for individuals navigating identity, trauma, and
1:00
PM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 15, 2026 | 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below.  SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:00
PM
AFFIRMING
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 15, 2026 | 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Wellness Room We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community
6:00
PM
Positively Grateful
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 15, 2026 | 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm Event Center Are you HIV+?, Looking for support, friends, or someone to talk to? Join an HIV+ Support Group that meets every Friday. Join for potluck meals, receive wellness tips, find support, raise awareness, and more! All are welcome!
6:30
PM
HEALING SOUND AND SOMATICS: WORKSHOP
Flagship / Tulsa Artist Fellowship
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Participants are guided through theBody Ether Light Exercises—a series of accessible, meditative practices that combine breath, voice, attention, and subtle movement to explore the body as a site of perception, memory, and transformation.
HEALING SOUND AND SOMATICS: WORKSHOP →
7:00
PM
Grace O'Malley
Loony Bin Comedy Club - Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Sit close to the front. Laugh out loud when it's funny. Talk to the people next to you during the break. Live comedy in an intimate room hits different, and you have literally zero excuses to not go.
8:00
PM
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company
Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Tulsa Shakespeare Company presents The Tempest at the Equality Center, with a unique blend of traditional theatre and drag and an entirely LGBTQ+ cast, crew, and creative team. Six-night run May 14-16 and May 21-23, all shows at 8pm. Tickets at tulsashakespeare.com.
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present The Tempest
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 15, 2026 | 8:00 pm - 10:00 pm Lynn Riggs Theater Set in an abandoned town on Route 66, The Tempest follows Prospero, rightful Duke of Milan, as she conspires to bring her 12 year long exile to a conclusion through magical manipulation and the help of her faery servant, Ariel. Performed in the drag modern aesthetic, this colorful comedy explores family, gender, colonization and redemption. Cast
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present →
8:00
PM
Billy Currington
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Put this on your calendar and actually go. The people in that room are your people, and you'll only know that if you show up.

Saturday

May 16

12:00
PM
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 16, 2026 | 12:00 pm - 6:00 pm Wellness Room/Library Are you a fan of tabletop role-playing games? If so, you won't want to miss Tulsa's TTRPGs 🧙🏾‍♂️👹🧝🏼🧌🪄🧚🏻‍♀️ Meet new people, make friends, learn about our store partners, and play your favorite games. Don't miss out on this exciting event! Contact us at okeqtulsattrpg@gmail.com to learn more! We can't wait to see you there! 🏳️‍⚧️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🤎🖤🏳️‍🌈 T
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs →
1:00
PM
Rainbow Harvest: Free Farmer's Market
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 16, 2026 | 1:00 pm - 4:00 pm ✨ What is Rainbow Harvest? Rainbow Harvest is a FREE Farmers Market for the community. This event is all about increasing access to fresh, nutritious food and fostering connection in a space that’s safe, welcoming, and affirming of all identities. This market is in recognition of the unique challenges our community faces around food insecurity and access. 📋 IMPORTA
Rainbow Harvest: Free Farmer's Market →
1:00
PM
FILM SCREENING: LAINEY WILSON: KEEPIN’ COUNTRY COOL + DIRECTOR Q&A
Flagship / Tulsa Artist Fellowship
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
JoinTulsa Artist Fellowship,Tulsa Film Collective, andWaters MediaatPhilbrook Museum of Artfor a special community screening of the documentary feature filmLainey Wilson: Keepin’ Country Cool(2026).
FILM SCREENING: LAINEY WILSON: KEEPIN’ COUNTRY COO →
3:30
PM
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things
Foolish Things Coffee
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & Write!®](https://www.shutupwrite.com)** SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accountability, and resou
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things →
8:00
PM
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company
Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Tulsa Shakespeare Company presents The Tempest at the Equality Center, with a unique blend of traditional theatre and drag and an entirely LGBTQ+ cast, crew, and creative team. Six-night run May 14-16 and May 21-23, all shows at 8pm. Tickets at tulsashakespeare.com.
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present The Tempest
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 16, 2026 | 8:00 pm - 10:00 pm Lynn Riggs Theater Set in an abandoned town on Route 66, The Tempest follows Prospero, rightful Duke of Milan, as she conspires to bring her 12 year long exile to a conclusion through magical manipulation and the help of her faery servant, Ariel. Performed in the drag modern aesthetic, this colorful comedy explores family, gender, colonization and redemption. Cast
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present →
8:30
PM
Grace O'Malley
Loony Bin Comedy Club - Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Sit close to the front. Laugh out loud when it's funny. Talk to the people next to you during the break. Live comedy in an intimate room hits different, and you have literally zero excuses to not go.

Sunday

May 17

10:00
AM
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services
All Souls Unitarian Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately.
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services →
10:30
AM
Sound Bath Meditation
Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
An hour of sonic meditation with Nicholas Ray Bradford, gongs, Tibetan bowls, crystal harp, chimes, and more, with a tea ceremony to follow. Donation-based, give what you can. Sunday mornings rarely sound this good.
Sound Bath Meditation →
4:00
PM
Product Owner/Product Manager Career Blueprint: Skills & Tools
Meetup Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Are you looking to start or grow your career as a Product Owner/ Product Manager (PO/PM)? Join us for an interactive session where we explore what it truly takes to succeed as a PO/PM in modern product-driven organizations. This session is perfect for: • Aspiring PO/PM • Business Analysts or Scrum Masters transitioning into product roles • Professionals looking to move closer to business and strategy What we’ll cover: • What does a PO/PM actually do in real product teams • Key skills that mak
Product Owner/Product Manager Career Blueprint: Sk →
6:00
PM
Teachers Gone Bad
Loony Bin Comedy Club - Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Sit close to the front. Laugh out loud when it's funny. Talk to the people next to you during the break. Live comedy in an intimate room hits different, and you have literally zero excuses to not go.
7:00
PM
LGBTQA+ Online Support Group - Recovering from Religion
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This is an RfR-wide event, not tied to a particular location. \*NOTE: This meeting is solely for individuals who identify as Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Asexual, or any other non-traditional gender or sexuality. Please do not join if this does not describe you. The Recovering from
LGBTQA+ Online Support Group - Recovering from Rel →
9:00
PM
Sunday Showdown Open Talent Night
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Get there at Doors 9 PM, Show 11 PM, order your drink, and start a conversation with whoever's at the bar next to you. Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ nightlife runs on community, and the community only stays strong when you show up.
Sunday Showdown Open Talent Night →
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch
Various locations
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Dress like you tried. Order the thing you normally wouldn't. Talk to the table next to you. Brunch with this crowd is a full event, not just a meal, and you will regret skipping it.
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch →
Earlier This Week

Monday

May 11

7:00
PM
Lambda Bowling League
AMF Sheridan Lanes
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out.
Lambda Bowling League →

Tuesday

May 12

10:00
AM
OKEQ Senior's
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 12, 2026 | 10:00 am - 12:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120, USA OKEQ Seniors is a daytime program for LGBTQ+ elders. The program supports LGBT elders and meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Together with its members and allies, OKEQ Seniors works towards ensuring a high quality of life for older LGBT adults, advocat
4:00
PM
HOPE Testing (Health Outreach, Prevention & Education)
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 12, 2026 | 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm 2nd & 4th Tuesday, Free HIV Testing with HOPE Testing at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 🏳️‍⚧️🪶❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🩷🩵🤎🖤🪶🏳️‍🌈 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center 2nd & 4th Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm in the OKEQ Health Clinic. 🏳️‍⚧️🪶❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤍🩷🩵🤎🖤🪶🏳️‍🌈
6:00
PM
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group
OSU Tulsa Campus
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it.
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group →
6:00
PM
EdQ (Educators for Equality)
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 12, 2026 | 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm An Oklahomans for Equality Program EdQ brings together queer educators and anyone who works with youth to build stronger supports and resources for creating safe, affirming spaces for students. Whether you're in a classroom, counseling role, or youth serving space. This is for you. Let's connect, learn, and support one another.
7:00
PM
Tulsa Area Prime Timers
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 12, 2026 | 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm Event Center A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men to establish friendship and support through social interaction. 21+ 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7pm - Contact stevendubois@cox.net / 918.592.0088 or visit http://www.tulsaareaprimetimers.com/ for more information.
Okeq → Tulsaareaprimetimers → Okeq →

Wednesday

May 13

9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 13, 2026 | 9:00 am - 4:00 pm Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below.  SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT
OKEQ Health Clinic →
12:00
PM
(Off-site) Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 13, 2026 | 12:00 pm - 4:00 pm Reach out to Alyssa with the info below to schedule a time with her. These sessions are not held on site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination
(Off-site) Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Okl →
5:30
PM
Name & Gender Correction Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 13, 2026 | 5:30 pm - 7:00 pm Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebri
7:00
PM
Gender Outreach Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it.
Okeq → Okeq →
7:00
PM
Non-binary Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 13, 2026 | 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm Wellness Room Free The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297
7:00
PM
Transgender Men's Support Group (Private Group)
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 13, 2026 | 7:00 pm - 8:30 pm Glass Conference Room Free The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting)
Fellowship Congregational Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Put this on your calendar and actually go. The people in that room are your people, and you'll only know that if you show up.
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting) →

Thursday

May 14

2:30
AM
Updates for CAMPING. AND Newbie/First Timer/Seasoned Question and Answer
Meetup Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**This Zoom Local Events/Beginner Camping Q & A is a monthly event.** Video Link: [https://meet.google.com/irp-rnyi-fgb](https://meet.google.com/irp-rnyi-fgb) No software or download needed. Just open in a browser. We have some fun and social Local Camping events ahead. And Epic Adventure leads to Copious Questions. To solve that . . . Let's Talk! Join us for a Q & A Zoom where you can ask all your Q's and get all your A's. **SCHEDULE** ***6:00 to 7:30pm PST is Q & A about or Overseas Event
Updates for CAMPING. AND Newbie/First Timer/Season →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 14, 2026 | 9:00 am - 12:00 pm Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below.  SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:00
PM
Queer Crafters Club
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 14, 2026 | 6:00 pm - 8:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120, USA Bring your own craft night! Come craft with the queer community. Our focus is to build on togetherness while we craft in our own mediums! You can find us in the Gallery on Thursdays at the Equality Center.
6:30
PM
Girl Scout Troop 7484
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 14, 2026 | 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm Wellness Room Come be part of something special with ! We welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth to join our vibrant community. Every Thursday at 6:30 PM, we meet to build friendships, develop new skills, and have fun together. Whether you're looking for adventure, learning, or a supportive community, we’ve got a place for you! Want to learn more or get invo
Girl Scout Troop 7484 →
6:30
PM
HEALING SOUND AND SOMATICS: ARTIST TALK WITH BODY ETHER INSTITUTE
Flagship / Tulsa Artist Fellowship
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join us for an artist talk with interdisciplinary artistAnna Luisa Petrisko, co-founder ofBody Ether Institute, presented by Tulsa Artist FellowMicaela Tobin. Working across experimental opera, video, and performance, Petrisko explores how sound, embodiment, and ritual can reshape our experience of time, memory, and relation.
HEALING SOUND AND SOMATICS: ARTIST TALK WITH BODY →
7:00
PM
Green Country Bears Monthly Meetup
Restaurant (varies
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Monthly dinner meetup for bears and friends. Chill vibes, good food, friendly crowd.
Greencountrybears → Greencountrybears →
8:00
PM
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company
Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Tulsa Shakespeare Company presents The Tempest at the Equality Center, with a unique blend of traditional theatre and drag and an entirely LGBTQ+ cast, crew, and creative team. Six-night run May 14-16 and May 21-23, all shows at 8pm. Tickets at tulsashakespeare.com.
The Tempest by Tulsa Shakespeare Company →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present The Tempest
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
May 14, 2026 | 8:00 pm - 10:00 pm Lynn Riggs Theater Pay What You Can performance of The Tempest! Set in an abandoned town on Route 66, The Tempest follows Prospero, rightful Duke of Milan, as she conspires to bring her 12 year long exile to a conclusion through magical manipulation and the help of her faery servant, Ariel. Performed in the drag modern aesthetic, this colorful comedy explores fami
Tulsa Shakespeare Company and Tulsa North present →
9:00
PM
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Go. Put the phone away, get to the front, and tip the queens. You will absolutely lose your mind in the best possible way, and you will thank yourself for not staying home.
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show →