THIS WEEK TULSA GAYS
October 12 to October 18, 2026
Tulsa Gays is a free weekly guide to LGBTQ+ events in Tulsa. The list below covers drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, and it is updated every Monday morning.
We found 204 queer events in Tulsa this week across the 247 sources we watch. Of the 36 LGBTQ+ organizations we track here, 34 are covered. We do not claim to have all of it.
Updated October 14, 2026
Nothing to do in Tulsa?
Sounds like a straight person problem.
Tulsa has a bigger, busier LGBTQ+ scene than most people expect. This page rounds up the queer events in Tulsa each week, drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, refreshed every Monday. The scene centers on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and gathering spots like the Tulsa Eagle, Club Majestic, and Yellow Brick Road, Tulsa's lesbian bar.
Gay Score
🦩 Mostly straight
🦩🦩 Gay-friendly
🦩🦩🦩 LGBTQ-friendly
🦩🦩🦩🦩 Very LGBTQIA+
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩 Super gay
Wednesday
October 14
Half the week already poppin' and you're just now looking. Get in.
8:00
PM
Underwear Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Wednesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Underwear Night →
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting)
Fellowship Congregational Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Fellowship Congregational Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting) →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
12:00
PM
(Off-site) Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
(Off-site) Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Okl… →
4:00
PM
Queering Body Image Group
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This group provides safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals to connect with others, share their experiences, and provide and receive support, as well as explore body-image, self-esteem, and identity. It aims to build community, strengthen knowledge of local resources, and process the impact of systems of oppressionon mental wellbeing. The group is free to attend, meets in-person and is open to LGBTQ+ adults. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Queering Body Image Group →
5:30
PM
Name & Gender Correction Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Name & Gender Correction Clinic →
6:30
PM
Smart Recovery Meetings
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Smart Recovery Meetings →
7:00
PM
Gender Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gender Support Group →
7:00
PM
Non-binary Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Transgender Men's Support Group (Private Group)
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
If crowds drain you, Transgender Men's Support Group (Private Group) is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. It's happening at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on 2026-10-14, 7:00 PM. This is the heart of queer Tulsa. The front desk will point you to whatever you need. New in town or newly out? Start here.
Event details →
Dogstar: ALL IN NOW TOUR
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Dogstar: ALL IN NOW TOUR →
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
7:00
AM
Midweek Meditation (Zoom only)
Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 AM, over at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Midweek Meditation (Zoom only) →
9:30
AM
Little Garden Explorers
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Little Garden Explorers →
10:00
AM
#AskAnArchivist Day
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Celebrate American Archives Month in October at the OSU-Tulsa Library! Visit our Weird, Wacky and Wild Archives display and explore our archival and primary source resources online. Wednesday, October 14 is #AskAnArchivist Day Stop by the OSU-Tulsa Library and ask an archivist everything you've ever wanted to know about archives! What do archivists do?Why are archives important?What's the most underrated object in your collections?How can instructors incorporate archives into the classroom? It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at MAIN HALL. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
#AskAnArchivist Day →
10:00
AM
Fall Break at Fallbrook
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Break at Fallbrook →
11:30
AM
COWBOY CARRYOUT - The Mexican Way
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Fresh, authentic mexican food featuring rotating menus with items such as hot tortas, enchiladas, chile relinos, and more! PRE-ORDER THE MEXICAN WAY HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 11:30 AM, over at MAIN HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
COWBOY CARRYOUT - The Mexican Way →
12:30
PM
Tai Chi
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
OSU-Tulsa Wellness Center hosts fitness classes all semester long including classes for Yoga, Tai Chi and Core & Recovery. Classes are taught in the fitness studio located in North Hall 117 and are for ALL fitness levels. Classes are free for all OSU students, staff and faculty.* Fall 2026 Fitness Class Schedule Yoga: Mondays at 1 p.m.Tuesdays at 3 p.m.Fridays at 12 p.m. Tai Chi: Mondays at 2:30 p.m.Wednesdays at 12:30 p.m. Core and Recovery Tuesdays at 12:30 p.m. *Must have c. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:30 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tai Chi →
2:00
PM
Proud and Loud | Road to Homecoming
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Get ready for Homecoming and get a free OSU t-shirt and noisemaker! Wednesday, October 14th in Main Hall Commons from 2-4 p.m. It's a Wednesday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Proud and Loud | Road to Homecoming →
3:00
PM
Trauma Skills Group
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This group provides a supportive environment to learn and practice trauma-related coping strategies in community with others, providing members with tools that they can carry over into their life outside of group. The group is free to attend, meets in-person on Wednesdays from 3-4 pm, and is open to adults in the state of Oklahoma with trauma-related concerns. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Trauma Skills Group →
6:00
PM
Dungeons and Dragons Group for Interpersonal Goals
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
D&D meets therapy! Level up your social and emotional skills by building characters, navigating adventures, and working towards goals around interpersonal growth and selfexploration along with your party. This group meets Wednesdays at 6-7:30 p.m. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Dungeons and Dragons Group for Interpersonal Goals →
7:00
PM
Psychology Club Graduate Student Panel
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join the Psychology Club on Wednesday, Oct. 14, from 7-8 p.m. in North Hall Room 104 as they discuss what goes on in graduate school with panelists from OSU Counseling, OSU Clinical, Mental Health Counseling and OU Social Work. Zoom option. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Psychology Club Graduate Student Panel →
7:00
PM
*MOVED TO CAIN'S BALLROOM* An Evening Concert with True Loves - Presented by Guthrie Green & Aspen Ideas: Economy
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
WEATHER UPDATE: Due to weather, tonight’s concert featuring True Loves and Branj. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:30
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
Yoga With Leta
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Yoga With Leta →
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Library
McFarlin Library
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This exhibition, created with the support of The Hardesty Family Foundation, is the second in a series of rotating exhibits in McFarlin Library, established with the goal of highlighting the wonderful work created by UTulsa students. The exhibition features artworks created by students from across the university and encompasses a wide range of art media, […] \n. It's a Wednesday thing, over at McFarlin Library. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Librar… →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
Glow Zumba
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Glow Zumba →
Indigenous Independence: America at 250
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Indigenous Independence: America at 250 →
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle →
WOW, Worship on Wednesday
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
WOW, Worship on Wednesday →
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch →
HIIT Pilates With Amber
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to HIIT Pilates With Amber is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-14. Tulsa's queer community runs on people who show up. Be one of them.
HIIT Pilates With Amber →
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions →
Yoga with Jamie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Yoga with Jamie →
Open Mic Night
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Featuring: The best and worst Tulsa has to offer. Tickets: Free! All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Show/Doors Times 7:00 PM Show/6:00 PM Doors. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Open Mic Night →
Thursday
October 15
Thursday is warming up. The people who show up are the ones with the stories.
10:00
PM
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Rocky Horror Picture Show →
10:00
PM
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Weekly Thursday drag show hosted by the legendary Shanel Sterling. High energy, great performances. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
5:00
PM
Tulsa Pride x EBA Happy Hour
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
6:00
PM
OkEq Board Meeting
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Queer Crafters Club
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Queer Crafters Club →
6:30
PM
Girl Scout Troop 7484
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Girl Scout Troop 7484 →
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
10:00
AM
Fallbrook Storytime: Leaf Man & Leaf Art
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fallbrook Storytime: Leaf Man & Leaf Art →
10:00
AM
Fall Break at Fallbrook
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Break at Fallbrook →
11:30
AM
COWBOY CARRYOUT - Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Mexican food, tamales, flautas, tortas and aguas frescas. PRE-ORDER IRIS POSTRES Y COCINA MEXICANA HERE. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:30 AM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
COWBOY CARRYOUT - Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana →
12:00
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. Showtimes: 12:00 PM, 2:30 PM, 5:20 PM, 8:00 PM. It's a Thursday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
2:00
PM
Walking Tacos | Road to Homecoming (for students)
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join Student Life as we get ready to celebrate Homecoming! We'll have free walking tacos for students in North Hall lobby starting at 2 PM until supplies last! It's a Thursday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Walking Tacos | Road to Homecoming (for students) →
3:00
PM
Powerlifting Workshop: Bench Press
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join OSU-Tulsa Wellness for powerlifting workshops to learn: Proper warm upProper technique in each movementHow to properly set up and use equipment in each liftHow to safely perform each lift with proper range of motion and body mechanics Workshop options: Deadlift: Sept. 15Bench Press: Oct. 15Back Squat: Nov. 17 These workshops are designed for beginners only. If you don't know how to do any of the lifts, want to learn how to properly use equipment and body mechanic or are scared to try. It's a Thursday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Powerlifting Workshop: Bench Press →
4:30
PM
Third Thursday Jazz at the Tulsa Club Hotel featuring Angie Cockrell
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
SERIES #6: COUPLES SENSUAL BACHATA CLASS
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
SERIES #6: COUPLES SENSUAL BACHATA CLASS →
6:00
PM
Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt
Yokozuna
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Remarkably Bright Creatures, an exploration of friendship, reckoning, and hope, tracing a widow's unlikely connection with a giant Pacific octopus. After Tova Sullivan's husband died, she began working the night shift at the Sowell Bay Aquarium, mopping floors and tidying up. Keeping busy has alway. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Yokozuna. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt →
6:00
PM
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow
Handmade
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accoun. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Handmade. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow →
6:00
PM
DJ | Ryno
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Fitness on the Green - RunWalk Tulsa
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join RunWalk Tulsa every Thursday in October at 6:00 PM for Fitness on the Green. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
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Pop 2000 Tour
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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8:00
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THUMP DNB! W/ DRUMANDREW, ST LUKE, PHENETIC, JUSTJETT, KAPITAL GROUNDS
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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9:30
PM
Boy Band Radio
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Indigenous Independence: America at 250
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Indigenous Independence: America at 250 →
UKirk Campus Ministry Prayer Hour
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
UKirk Campus Ministry Prayer Hour →
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Library
McFarlin Library
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This exhibition, created with the support of The Hardesty Family Foundation, is the second in a series of rotating exhibits in McFarlin Library, established with the goal of highlighting the wonderful work created by UTulsa students. The exhibition features artworks created by students from across the university and encompasses a wide range of art media, […] \n. It's a Thursday thing, over at McFarlin Library. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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The Oak Ridge Boys
River Spirit Casino
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The Oak Ridge Boys →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
Let’s TACO ’bout Safety Fair
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Let’s TACO ’bout Safety Fair →
Paw Pals - Therapy Dogs
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Paw Pals - Therapy Dogs →
Episcopal Campus Ministry Morning Prayer Time
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Episcopal Campus Ministry Morning Prayer Time →
Core With Leta
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Core With Leta →
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle →
Dead Theologians Society
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Shy? Perfect. Dead Theologians Society runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Find it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-15 and roll in like you own the place. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Dead Theologians Society →
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions →
CAPS: Anxiety Toolbox Group
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
CAPS: Anxiety Toolbox Group is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Find it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-15 and roll in like you own the place. Worst case you make a new friend, best case it becomes your new Thing.
CAPS: Anxiety Toolbox Group →
HIIT Pilates With Amber
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Think of HIIT Pilates With Amber as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-15. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
HIIT Pilates With Amber →
Yoga With Jamie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Yoga With Jamie →
Presidential Lecture Series with Jodi Kantor
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Presidential Lecture Series with Jodi Kantor →
Exploring Nichos: Miniature Altars
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Learn how to create your own personal nicho (a small, decorative altar box)! You’ll be guided by Sara Anais on how to construct a miniature shadow box and learn the history and cultural significance of this beautiful Mexican folk art tradition. You’ll see a variety of examples and have the freedom to decorate your nicho to honor a loved one or personalize it however you like. This workshop is open to everyone and all skill levels, and all supplies are included. It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Exploring Nichos: Miniature Altars →
JD Clayton
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Belmont
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at The Vanguard. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Belmont →
Friday
October 16
Everyone you know is out tonight. You know that, right?
2:00
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Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Friday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle →
9:30
PM
Escándalo - Tulsa Pride Weekend Dance Competition
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Escándalo - Tulsa Pride Weekend Dance Competition →
9:00
AM
Free Drop-In Therapy Sessions
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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1:00
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OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:00
PM
AFFIRMING: Cancelled
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
AFFIRM is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy built specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. Free, weekly, in the Wellness Room at the Equality Center. If you know a young queer person who's struggling, this is the program. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Positively Grateful
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
HIV+ support runs on community, and this group has been holding it down every Friday for years. Potluck format, wellness check-ins, real friendships. Bring a dish, leave with a few new numbers in your phone. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
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7:00
PM
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elote Cafe
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elo… →
Equality Center Closed
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
10:00
AM
Family Nature Walk
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Family Nature Walk →
10:00
AM
Fall Break at Fallbrook
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Break at Fallbrook →
12:00
PM
AZ Zen Zoom - Friday - A safe place to discuss your spiritual path
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join us for one of our Awkwardly Zen Zooms where we will have an open forum where it's safe to speak openly about your spiritual journey. No questions are weird. No story will be judged. You can speak freely and support others as they wander down the path. All discussions in our Zen Zooms will stay. It's a Friday thing, around 12:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
AZ Zen Zoom - Friday - A safe place to discuss you… →
12:40
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. Showtimes: 12:40 PM, 2:30 PM. It's a Friday thing, around 12:40 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
4:30
PM
Route 66 Pumpkin Festival
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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5:30
PM
Friday Night CANASTA - HAND & FOOT
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Step away from the screen and use your brain for something that actually requires other people. Sit down next to a stranger, learn the rules, and talk trash. This is genuinely a great time. It's a Friday thing, around 5:30 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Friday Night CANASTA - HAND & FOOT →
6:00
PM
Allies Zine Training Series
Oklahoma City / Tulsa area
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Did you know the new head of ICE under Markwayne Mullin’s Department of Interior is set to be Lance Schroyer, who many 2SLGBTQ+ Oklahomans and allies recognize from his militant leadership at the Oklahoma Capitol “protecting” some elected officials from Oklahoma residents and voters who dared disagree with them? The fight for collective liberation relies on body sovereignty, and there’s deep allyship and action needed to make that a reality at this moment, across movements. And that’s why we’re. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Oklahoma City / Tulsa area. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Allies Zine Training Series →
6:00
PM
The Unholy Matrimony of Tabitha Litch and Suzy Specter
Studio 308
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Suzy Specter and Tabitha Litch are getting hitched, and you are formally summoned to witness their romantic union. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Studio 308. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The Unholy Matrimony of Tabitha Litch and Suzy Spe… →
6:00
PM
🎸 Four Intense Bands, One Rockhard Night 🎸
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
🎸 Four Intense Bands, One Rockhard Night 🎸 →
6:00
PM
Premier Partner Event: Mediumship Gallery with Valorie Lewis
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is a Premier Event meaning that there is a fee associated ($25). This fee helps support Awkwardly Zen and our awesome [Awkwardly Zen **Purchase tickets for $25 Spend an evening wi. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Premier Partner Event: Mediumship Gallery with Val… →
6:00
PM
DJ | Ryno
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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6:00
PM
Praise and Pass the Paint
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Praise and Pass the Paint →
6:00
PM
Shadows Beneath the Canvas: A Philbrook Murder Mystery by Ginny Myers Sain
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Shadows Beneath the Canvas: A Philbrook Murder Mys… →
7:00
PM
DJ | Dust
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
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7:00
PM
Films at the Museum: Little Shop of Horrors (1986)
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Films at the Museum: Little Shop of Horrors (1986) →
7:30
PM
Opening Night
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Opening Night →
8:00
PM
Time Machine
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
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10:00
PM
Blanco Brown
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Staind
BOK Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at BOK Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Staind →
Woody Guthrie Prize 2026
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Cain's Ballroom. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Woody Guthrie Prize 2026 →
Travis Tritt
River Spirit Casino
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Travis Tritt →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Library
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Librar… →
October Gallery Hours
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Friday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
October Gallery Hours →
OK So Tulsa GREATEST HITS
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Want to hear some of the MOST FUN stories that have been told on the OK So Tulsa stage the last 13 years? Join us for a night of the GREATEST HITS of OK SO - stories that will be sure to make you smile! It's a Friday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OK So Tulsa GREATEST HITS →
The Free Samples
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Free Samples →
The Poppa Foster Goodtime Band
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The Poppa Foster Goodtime Band →
HOARSEMAN | Alive Again
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, over at The Vanguard. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
HOARSEMAN | Alive Again →
Saturday
October 17
The weekend peaked. You were either there or you weren't.
9:30
PM
Scary Ol' B*tches
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scary Ol' B*tches →
9:00
AM
ACT Pride Table
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:00 AM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
ACT Pride Table →
12:00
PM
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
OKEQ's tabletop crew runs the friendliest game night in town. Show up curious, get folded into a one-shot or a long campaign, walk out with a Discord invite. Snacks provided. No D&D experience required. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs →
1:00
PM
Pride in The Park 2026
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Pride in The Park 2026 →
3:00
PM
Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade
E 6th St & S Frankfort Ave
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Tulsa Pride is the main event, Oklahomans for Equality's flagship parade and festival that fills downtown's Tulsa Arts District with floats, drag, vendors, food, and the entire community out and proud. Note that OKEQ moved the big Pride to October, so this, not June, is Tulsa's marquee Pride. The 2026 parade starts at 4 p.m., and road construction around the Equality Center moves the festival to East 6th Street and South Frankfort Avenue this year. Best-time tip: stake out a parade spot early, then flow into the festival, wear sunscreen and comfortable shoes, and pace yourself because this one goes all day.
Tulsa Pride Festival & Parade →
3:00
PM
Walking in the pride parade
Boston Avenue United Methodist Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Boston Avenue United Methodist Church. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Walking in the pride parade →
Equality Center Closed
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Tulsa Pride 2026
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Think of Tulsa Pride 2026 as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Catch it at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on 2026-10-17. This is the heart of queer Tulsa. The front desk will point you to whatever you need. New in town or newly out? Start here.
Tulsa Pride 2026 →
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
CLASSICS: VERDI REQUIEM
Tulsa Symphony
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Symphony. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
CLASSICS: VERDI REQUIEM →
9:00
AM
Brush Creek Bazaar
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:00 AM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Brush Creek Bazaar →
10:00
AM
Fall Mindful Meditation with AT EASE Meditation
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Mindful Meditation with AT EASE Meditation →
10:30
AM
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things
Foolish Things Coffee
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accountability, and resou. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Foolish Things Coffee. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things →
12:00
PM
Tulsa Hills Michaels Boo Bash
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Hills Michaels Boo Bash →
12:40
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. Showtimes: 12:40 PM, 5:10 PM. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:40 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
1:00
PM
NEVERMORE SEASON: Punkin Family Comedy Show
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Nothing bonds a room like laughing at the same thing at the same time, darling. Come a little early, order before the show so you are not that clinking glass, and sit close enough to feel the punchlines land. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
NEVERMORE SEASON: Punkin Family Comedy Show →
4:30
PM
TFA TOURS | BROTHELS & BOOTLEGGERS: A Blue Dome District Tour
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
DJ | Ryno
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Chris Kattan
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times 6: It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Chris Kattan →
6:00
PM
Beats On 66 Fright Night
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Beats On 66 Fright Night →
6:30
PM
Dean DeMerritt Jazz Tribe Live At LowDown!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Dean DeMerritt Jazz Tribe Live At LowDown! →
7:00
PM
DWA (Drinking With Atheists)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
DWA (Drinking With Atheists) →
7:00
PM
DJ | Dust
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:30
PM
The 66 Kicks HOOTENANNY!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The 66 Kicks HOOTENANNY! →
8:00
PM
Lil' Kim
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Truck Stop Gamblers
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
BLACK MOTH ART MARKET 2026
1142 S. Harvard Ave
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A morning of one-of-a-kind finds and zero big-box energy, baby. Bring cash, bring a friend with opinions, and get there early while the tables are still full and the coffee line is short. It's a Saturday thing, over at 1142 S. Harvard Ave. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
BLACK MOTH ART MARKET 2026 →
Zoo Nights
Tulsa Zoo
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Zoo. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Zoo Nights →
Saturday Night Lab
Discovery Lab
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Saturday Night Lab →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
I Can’t Photograph with Gilcrease Museum
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
I Can’t Photograph with Gilcrease Museum →
I Can’t Create a Gel Plate Print with Living Arts
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
I Can’t Create a Gel Plate Print with Living Arts →
October Gallery Hours
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Saturday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
October Gallery Hours →
Dean DeMerritt Jazz Tribe (6:30 p.m.)
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Dean DeMerritt Jazz Tribe (6:30 p.m.) →
Tristan Roberson
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tristan Roberson →
Cody Hibbard
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at The Vanguard. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Cody Hibbard →
Sunday
October 18
You'll wake up Monday wishing you went. We're just saying.
3:00
PM
Drag Bingo: BOO BITCHES
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Sunday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Drag Bingo: BOO BITCHES →
9:45
PM
La La Land
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Neon, cheap-enough drinks, and a jukebox with excellent taste, sugar. Post up at the bar, buy a stranger's next round, and watch a quiet Tuesday turn into a story. Earlier for talking, later for trouble. It's a Sunday thing, around 9:45 PM, over at Club Majestic. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
La La Land →
11:00
PM
Sunday Showcase
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Sunday Showcase →
10:00
AM
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services
All Souls Unitarian Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Sunday thing, around 10:00 AM - 11:15 AM, over at All Souls Unitarian Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services →
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch
Various locations
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Sunday thing, over at Various locations. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch →
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
TRAIL TUNES
Tulsa Symphony
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Sunday thing, over at Tulsa Symphony. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
TRAIL TUNES →
10:30
AM
Fitness on the Green - Zumba with Ariane
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Guthrie Green is Tulsa's downtown front yard. Show up, find a spot, talk to whoever sits near you. Public space done right. It's a Sunday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Guthrie Green. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
1:00
PM
Tulsa Speed Dating for Singles Age 50s/60s ⥠Oklahoma at American Solera
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tulsa Speed Dating for Singles Age 50s/60s ⥠Okl… →
1:00
PM
TUFFest Double Feature
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tickets here for TUFFest Double Feature - $15 each, includes admission to 1pm Block A and 3pm Block B. For tickets to just Block A or B at $10 each, click back to events. Presented by Tulsa Underground Film Fest - one day only, Sun 10/18 THE TUFFest returns October 18 with two blocks of independent films from right here at home and around the world! Come spend the afternoon watching a great mix of. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
TUFFest Double Feature →
1:00
PM
TUFFest Block A
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tickets here for TUFFest Block A - $10 each, includes admission to 1pm screening. For tickets to the double feature or just Block B at 3pm, click back to events. Presented by Tulsa Underground Film Fest - one day only, Sun 10/18 THE TUFFest returns October 18 with two blocks of independent films from right here at home and around the world! Come spend the afternoon watching a great mix of films, m. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
TUFFest Block A →
1:15
PM
ACT Book Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:15 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
ACT Book Club →
2:00
PM
Acrylics Paint Class- Fall Pumpkins
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Acrylics Paint Class- Fall Pumpkins →
3:50
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. Showtimes: 3:50 PM, 8:20 PM. It's a Sunday thing, around 3:50 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
4:30
PM
Route 66 Pumpkin Festival
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:30
PM
Saxual Healing - Live Music
Studio 308
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Writing This night is for everyone who wants to feel something and be a part of something great. A night where you can get lost in the mome. It's a Sunday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Studio 308. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Saxual Healing - Live Music →
7:30
PM
Strawberry Colored Glasses
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Presented by Tulsa Underground Film Fest - one night only, Sun 10/18 General admission tickets $12 each, include film at 7:30pm plus post-film Q&A. VIP Muriel Experience tickets are currently sold out. Some of your favorite childhood memories started with one incredibly talented woman. Now, it`s time to meet her. Join us for the premiere of Strawberry Colored Glasses: The Story of Muriel Fahrion. It's a Sunday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Strawberry Colored Glasses →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Sunday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
Peter Case
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Peter Case →
Exitwounds & Nailed Shut
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, over at The Vanguard. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Exitwounds & Nailed Shut →
Earlier This Week
Monday
October 12
This is already happening. Are you there or are you on the couch again?
7:00
PM
Lambda Bowling League
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Lambda Bowling League →
8:00
PM
Gaymer Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gaymer Night →
11:00
AM
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park →
11:00
AM
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House
Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group417 N Main Street
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group417 N Main Street. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House →
2:00
PM
Happy Hour with Free Pool at Caz’s Pub
Caz's Pub21 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Caz's Pub21 E Reconciliation Way. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour with Free Pool at Caz’s Pub →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at in the raw vū
in the raw vū110 N Elgin Ave.
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū110 N Elgin Ave.. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour at in the raw vū →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at Saturn Room
Saturn Room209 N Boulder
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room209 N Boulder. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Saturn Room →
4:00
PM
Sunday & Monday Bar Special at PRHYME
PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse111 N Main Suite A
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Half off bar entrees, & bar snacks when dining in the bar area. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse111 N Main Suite A. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Sunday & Monday Bar Special at PRHYME →
6:00
PM
Tre Lamb Coaches Show at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Monday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tre Lamb Coaches Show at Elgin Park →
6:30
PM
Indigenous Day at Cain’s Ballroom with Blaine Bailey, Samantha Crain, Agalisiga ‘Chuj’ Mackey Kalyn Fay, RC Edwards
Cain's Ballroom423 N Main
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Monday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom423 N Main. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Indigenous Day at Cain’s Ballroom with Blaine Bail… →
7:00
PM
Monday Movie Night: Dracula
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Monday Movie Night: Dracula →
8:00
PM
Record Night at Saturn Room
Saturn Room209 N Boulder
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Saturn Room209 N Boulder. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Record Night at Saturn Room →
Tuesday
October 13
Your friends went. You'll hear about it Wednesday. Or you could just go.
2:00
PM
Tea Party Tuesday
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Tuesday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tea Party Tuesday →
6:00
PM
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group
OSU Tulsa Campus
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at OSU Tulsa Campus. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Tuesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
10:00
AM
OKEQ Senior's
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
QueerLit Collective Fundraiser: Dinner, Drinks & Story Time with Shanel Sterling
Elote Cafe
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM, over at Elote Cafe. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
QueerLit Collective Fundraiser: Dinner, Drinks & S… →
7:00
PM
Tulsa Area Prime Timers
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tulsa Area Prime Timers →
7:00
PM
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series
Central Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, over at Central Park. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series →
Once Upon A Drag
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Once Upon A Drag →
Cycle With Katie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Cycle With Katie →
VSA Street Food Fundraiser
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
VSA Street Food Fundraiser →
Free Tuesday Lunch at St. Philip Neri
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Free Tuesday Lunch at St. Philip Neri →
Baptist Collegiate Ministries Mentor Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Baptist Collegiate Ministries Mentor Lunch →
Wesley Men’s Group
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Wesley Men’s Group →
French Conversation Group
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
French Conversation Group →
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If crowds drain you, SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-13. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions →
Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If crowds drain you, Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. University of Tulsa on 2026-10-13 is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study →
Wesley Study Night
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Wesley Study Night is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-13. Worst case you make a new friend, best case it becomes your new Thing.
Wesley Study Night →
Kappa Phi Christian Sisterhood
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kappa Phi Christian Sisterhood →
Under the Influence Film Series with President Stacy Leeds
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Under the Influence Film Series with President Sta… →
Aspen Ideas: Economy at NYU Tulsa
NYU Tulsa Academic Center36 E Cameron St
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at NYU Tulsa Academic Center36 E Cameron St. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Aspen Ideas: Economy at NYU Tulsa →