Tulsa Gays is a free weekly guide to LGBTQ+ events in Tulsa. The list below covers drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, and it is updated every Monday morning.
We found 262 queer events in Tulsa this week across the 245 sources we watch. Of the 36 LGBTQ+ organizations we track here, 34 are covered. We do not claim to have all of it.
Updated September 17, 2026
Nothing to do in Tulsa? Sounds like a straight person problem.
Tulsa has a bigger, busier LGBTQ+ scene than most people expect. This page rounds up the queer events in Tulsa each week, drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, refreshed every Monday. The scene centers on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and gathering spots like the Tulsa Eagle, Club Majestic, and Yellow Brick Road, Tulsa's lesbian bar.
Event of the Week
DRAGNIFICENT!DRAG SHOW
Thursday, September 17 · 10:00 PM
Club Majestic
Weekly Thursday drag show hosted by the legendary Shanel Sterling. High energy, great performances. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Gay Score🦩 Mostly straight🦩🦩 Gay-friendly🦩🦩🦩 LGBTQ-friendly🦩🦩🦩🦩 Very LGBTQIA+🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩 Super gay
Thursday
September 17
Thursday is warming up. The people who show up are the ones with the stories.
10:00
PM
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Weekly Thursday drag show hosted by the legendary Shanel Sterling. High energy, great performances. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Weekly 18+ drag showcase hosted by Shanel Sterling, featuring local and visiting performers. It's a Thursday thing. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Thursday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Shop Talk // Drifters Theater & Tulsa artist Clayton Pelotte
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by Art Directors Club of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:30 AM, over at Shared by THUMP DNB. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness
Alexandre Hogue Gallery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
On view through Thursday, October 1, 2026. The Alexandre Hogue Gallery presents LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness, an exhibition of landscape paintings by UTulsa alumnus Josh Butts. Butts’ creative practice spans a range of media, including drawing, editorial illustrations, oil paintings and large-scale murals. He is also the founder of the graphic design agency Scrambler […] \n. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Alexandre Hogue Gallery. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Three days of gyros, baklava, live music, and folk dancing at the 66th annual Tulsa Greek Festival. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 AM - 10:00 PM, over at 1222 S. Guthrie Ave.. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
See the Oscar-nominated Pixar classic back on the big screen at the Circle in celebration of the 20th anniversary of the film, and the Route 66 centennial celebrations! Special screening Sat 9/5 with Michael Wallis and Magic City Books - Tickets on sale now for film screening at 3pm, and come early for book sales and signing in the lobby starting at 2pm! Magic City Books will have copies of Michae. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana is a Cowboy Carryout vendor which means you can pickup meals on campus! Big Burrito: Your choice of pork chorizo or chipotle chicken with lettuce, tomato, onions, Spanish rice, shredded cheese, refried beans on a flour tortilla. And a side of tomatillo salsa. | $11.50 Mexican Torta: Your choice of pork chorizo or Mexican style breaded chicken breast. It comes with lettuce, tomato, onions, avocado, cheese, refried beans and mayo on Telera bread | $11.50 Green. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:30 AM, over at Pete's Place. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
101 Archer Gallery | Still Sovereign: Land, Law, Memory
101 Archer
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Still Sovereign: Land, Law, Memory examines Tribal sovereignty as a living and ongoing reality. Guided by ancestral memory and Indigenous governance systems in existence long before the United States, the exhibition explores sovereignty through relationships to land, law and community. Through contemporary and traditional Indigenous art, historical materials and community knowledge, the exhibition demonstrates that […] \n. It's a Thursday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at 101 Archer. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Join the Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling for a fun, interactive tabling event focused on raising awareness about suicide prevention. Stop by to learn about how to support your friends through their struggles, how to recognize warning signs of mental distress, and how to cope with your own mental health struggles. There will be fun giveaways and a chance to win a grand prize! It's a Thursday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Third Thursday Jazz at the Tulsa Club Hotel Featuring Max Holm!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Shared by John Taylor. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accoun. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Handmade. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Hollis Shaw’s life seems picture-perfect. She’s the creator of the popular food blog Hungry with Hollis and is married to Matthew, a dreamy heart surgeon. But after she and Matthew get into a heated argument one snowy morning, he leaves for the airport and is killed in a car accident. The cracks in. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at The Bros Houligan. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Join the YMCA every Thursday in September for a free low-impact workout at Guthr. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Show up for the opener nobody warned you would be that good, sugar. Post up near the bar for an easy refill and a clear view, and stay for the encore the die-hards are already screaming for. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at 620 S Cincinnati Ave. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Mabee Center - Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Cocktail Class: Hispanic Heritage Month with Jackie
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at 731 NW 23rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Low stakes, high drama, free to lose your dignity, darling. Get there early to lock down a booth, order a round for the table, and let the tie-breaker bring out a side of you the group has never seen. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 223 N Main St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Uncle Bently's Pub & Grill. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Shared by Cheyenne Walker. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Shared by Sunny Rae Events. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The room goes electric the second the band plugs in, darling. Come early enough to grab a spot with sightlines, tip the opener at the merch table, and let one great set reset your whole week. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at 121 S Elgin Avenue. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Somewhere between a talent show and a group hug, sugar. Sign up the second you walk in, order the drink that unlocks your range, and remember the crowd roots hardest for whoever commits the most. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at 816 S Sheridan Rd. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at University of Tulsa with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
HIIT Pilates With Amber is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-17. Tulsa's queer community runs on people who show up. Be one of them.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Attendees will learn the basics of crochet, learning the stitches and terminology that form the base of most crochet patterns. They will create their own swatch to take home, alongside instructions on how to create their first big project. From basic stitches to reading patterns, this class will prepare participants to create their own crochet creations! Best for beginners, but open to all skill levels! For ages 14-Adult. It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Everyone you know is out tonight. You know that, right?
2:00
PM
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Friday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Escándalo, hosted by La Franchesqua & King Laylo York, with Shanel Sterling & Kiana D. Jade
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Belly up, tip your bartender like a tithe, and let the room do its thing, darling. Slow at first, electric by midnight. Go before you talk yourself into staying in. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Wear something you can sweat through, sugar, because a chair is not in your future. Get on that floor in the first twenty minutes, before your nerves start negotiating, and do not you dare leave before the DJ's last song. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
AFFIRM is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy built specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. Free, weekly, in the Wellness Room at the Equality Center. If you know a young queer person who's struggling, this is the program. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
HIV+ support runs on community, and this group has been holding it down every Friday for years. Potluck format, wellness check-ins, real friendships. Bring a dish, leave with a few new numbers in your phone. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Join us for Record Club: Musicals Edition, featuring the music from your favorit. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elote Cafe
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
DVL Club & Lounge, the woman-owned LGBTQ+ bar in Tulsa's Blue Dome District. Details on Instagram @dvltulsa. It's a Friday thing, over at DVL Club & Lounge. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Tulsa Theater. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The Tulsa Greek Festival serves up three days of authentic Greek food, gyros, souvlaki, baklava, hot loukoumades, plus live music, folk dancing, church tours, and a Greek marketplace. One of the tastiest weekends of the Tulsa year.
Parents & Families: Named for the city of Tulsa’s area code, 918 Day is a civic pride day to celebrate Tulsa’s diverse heritage. We encourage you and your student to explore some of the many opportunities the city has to offer: Attend the 918 Day Festival Shop at a local retailer Eat at one of Tulsa’s many local restaurants Discover a new favorite brew at a local coffee shop Indulge your taste buds with one of our microcreameries Cheers to new friends at one of the microbreweries Explore some ideas here: It's a Friday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Collins Hall. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 2:50 PM, 5:30 PM, 8:00 PM. It's a Friday thing, around 2:50 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
TEDx Riverfield Country Day School Youth: Where Adventure Meets Excellence
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at H.A. Chapman Centennial Green. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Shared by SAC Gallery of Skiatook. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Step away from the screen and use your brain for something that actually requires other people. Sit down next to a stranger, learn the rules, and talk trash. This is genuinely a great time. It's a Friday thing, around 5:30 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
If crowds drain you, Music at the Museum: Nature & Madness is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. Find it at Philbrook Museum of Art on 2026-09-18, 5:30 PM and roll in like you own the place. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by ZegART Studios. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Death Over Dinner is more than a meal; it's an opportunity to connect through one of life's most meaningful conversations. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at yogaQuest. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 6:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Route 66: The Main Street of America - Oklahoma Premiere
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Circle Cinema has been celebrating the centennial of Route 66 all year long, leading up to the Oklahoma premiere of the mother of all Mother Road movies! Friday September 18, the red carpets are rolling out for the debut of Route 66: The Main Street of America with filmmaker John Paget and Route 66 historian Michael Wallis in attendance as special guests. Tickets on sale now, and include admission. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
If you are seeing the showtime you want to attend is SOLD OUT - Click Here to join our Wait List! You will be notified if additional shows are added! All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium. It's a Friday thing, around 9:45 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scotfest Oklahoma brings Highland games, Celtic bands, whisky tastings, and clan villages to Broken Arrow, and 2026 is billed as the final Scotfest after 46 years. If you have ever meant to go, this is your last call to catch the kilts and caber tosses.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Zoo. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Parent & Family Weekend: Collins Fitness Center Open House
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Friday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekly LGBTQIA+ Friday club night with DJ Konnect, dancing, and playful twerk competition. It's a Friday thing. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at The Vanguard. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The weekend peaked. You were either there or you weren't.
1:00
PM
Drag brunch
Sunny rae room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Rhinestones catching the light, a host with a mouth on her, and numbers you will be quoting all week, darling. Post up near the runway, keep your drink in one hand and your tips in the other, and let the queens do the rest. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Sunny rae room. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Saturday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The good kind of dive where everybody eventually knows your drink, honey. Come early enough to actually hear the person next to you, grab a stool with a view of the door, and let the regulars fold you in. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 PM - 10:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Belly up, tip your bartender like a tithe, and let the room do its thing, darling. Slow at first, electric by midnight. Go before you talk yourself into staying in. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
OKEQ's tabletop crew runs the friendliest game night in town. Show up curious, get folded into a one-shot or a long campaign, walk out with a Discord invite. Snacks provided. No D&D experience required. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Join us at OKEQ for the inaugural Tulsa Fringe Festival, presented by Oklahomans for Equality, a two-day celebration of bold creativity, original voices, and performances that push. It's a Saturday thing, over at OKEQ (621 E 4th St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Opera. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Symphony. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tulsa Time: A Laid-Back Evening of Live Music, Conversation & Connection
Tearoom Crumble クランブル
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 AM, over at Tearoom Crumble クランブル. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 AM - 9:00 AM, over at yogaQuest. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 AM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Fly Loft. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at 6202 South Sheridan Road. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Building an Author Platform for Those Who Loathe Selling Themselves | Sept. 19
OSU-Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Building an Author Platform for Those Who Loathe Selling Themselves Saturday, Sept. 19 from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Online via Zoom Are you worried about finding a publisher? Once published, how will you find your readers? Do you hate “selling yourself” on Facebook and Instagram or think TikTok is for teens? If so, this three-hour workshop is for you. Participants will learn why platform is vital to securing a publication deal and tips and tools to help build that platform. We will talk about how t. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at OSU-Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Greek Festival is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church on 2026-09-19, 11:00 AM - 10:00 PM is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 12:00 PM, 5:10 PM, 8:30 PM. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Circle Cinema, Tulsa's only nonprofit arthouse movie theater, will host the 918 Film Festival on Saturday, September 19, 2026, with a full day of Oklahoma-made short films, live script readings and a Walk of Fame ceremony honoring art director Chuck Price. Tickets here for Oklahoma Student Shorts program, $10 members and $12 non-members. Oklahoma Student Short Films + Q&A | 2:15pm - 4pm Origin Sto. It's a Saturday thing, around 2:15 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Stop by Collins Hall to check in, enter the drawing for a UTulsa swag bag, and pick up a special discount card to use at participating Tulsa-based McNellie’s Group restaurants. Families can also pick up complimentary family buttons and stickers to show their UTulsa pride. It's a Saturday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Collins Hall. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Premier Partner Event: Mediumship Gallery with Valorie Lewis
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is a Premier Event meaning that there is a fee associated ($25). This fee helps support Awkwardly Zen and our awesome [Awkwardly Zen **Purchase tickets for $25 Spend an evening with. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 1801 S Garnett Rd. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Shared by Open Eye Yoga and Healing Space. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
TFA TOURS | WAREHOUSE MARKET: Deco Masterpiece & Gunboat Park
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The good stuff sells fast and the makers love to talk shop, sugar. Get there near opening, wander the whole row before you commit, and tip your favorite artist with an actual sale, not just a compliment. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Circle Cinema, Tulsa's only nonprofit arthouse movie theater, will host the 918 Film Festival on Saturday, September 19, 2026, with a full day of Oklahoma-made short films, live script readings and a Walk of Fame ceremony honoring art director Chuck Price. Tickets here for the Tulsa Short Films - $10 members, $12 non-members. Tulsa Short Films + Q&A | 4:30pm - 6:30pm A Fateful Encounter directed b. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Roughneck Roller Derby September 19th Double Header
Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come support local roller derby! Game 1: Roadkill Rollers vs Dust Devils Junior Derby; Game 2: Roughnecks vs Rolla Rockets. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC). Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Shared by Ken Brown. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by Brandon Mull. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Tulsa Ok. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Darling, this is your Grammy moment and the academy is three drinks deep and adoring. Get your name down early, warm up in the bathroom mirror, and leave nothing on that little stage. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 3820 W Edison. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Nothing bonds a room like laughing at the same thing at the same time, darling. Come a little early, order before the show so you are not that clinking glass, and sit close enough to feel the punchlines land. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Comedy Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) asks nothing of you but showing up. No small talk quota, no dress code drama, just a room that's happier with you in it. Broken Arrow Events Park on 2026-09-19, All day is where you need to be. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
I Can’t Bollywood Dance with Center for Creativity
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Yoga in the Gallery: Yoga Flow with Flow by Alicia
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Linking breath with movement, expect to work a little bit in this yoga class guided by Flow by Alicia! This class is accessible to all levels. Please bring your own yoga mat. It will be a 1 hour class, and will be $10 per person! It's a Saturday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Saturday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Micah Schanel & Vanessa Jean Speckman with RR Williams & Justin Bloss
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Micah Schanel & Vanessa Jean Speckman with RR Williams & Justin Bloss. It's a Saturday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
If you are seeing the showtime you want to attend is SOLD OUT - Click Here to join our Wait List! You will be notified if additional shows are added! All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium. It's a Saturday thing, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekly 21+ LGBTQIA+ dance party with no cover before 10 except show nights. It's a Saturday thing. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
All-ages queer pirate bash with live bands, BBQ from Boomtown, and bar access. It's a Saturday thing. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Saturday thing, over at Gateway Event Center Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at The Vanguard. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
You'll wake up Monday wishing you went. We're just saying.
3:00
PM
Drag Bingo
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Sunday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Neon, cheap-enough drinks, and a jukebox with excellent taste, sugar. Post up at the bar, buy a stranger's next round, and watch a quiet Tuesday turn into a story. Earlier for talking, later for trouble. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Sunday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Sunday thing, around 10:00 AM - 11:15 AM, over at All Souls Unitarian Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Eggs are optional, the gossip is mandatory, baby. Dress like you tried, tip your server like a Parton, and let the bottomless pours do the introductions. Roll in right at the start before the good tables go. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Sunday thing, over at Various locations. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 12:00 PM, 3:00 PM, 5:20 PM. It's a Sunday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Wheeler Park - Eggeling Stadium. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:15 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Step away from the screen and use your brain for something that actually requires other people. Sit down next to a stranger, learn the rules, and talk trash. This is genuinely a great time. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Shared by Tidewater Winery. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
As we arrive at the Fall Equinox, we pause to honor the shift in season and turn our attention inward. This evening’s theme,“Ground is Center,”invites us to explore what it means to feel rooted, steady, and connected to ourselves. It's a Sunday thing, around 5:45 PM - 6:45 PM, over at yogaQuest. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Philbrook offers a curator-led tour of Roadside Abstractions, an exhibit riffing on Route 66 and the American road. A smart, unhurried way to see the show through an expert's eyes.
Going solo to Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Broken Arrow Events Park on 2026-09-20, All day is where you need to be. Tulsa's queer community runs on people who show up. Be one of them.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Sunday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekly 18+ queer open talent and drag showcase featuring limited contestant competition slots. It's a Sunday thing. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, over at The Vanguard. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This is already happening. Are you there or are you on the couch again?
7:00
PM
Lambda Bowling League
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Monday Movie Night: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Caz’s Pub. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
@ Half off bar entrees, & bar snacks when dining in the bar area. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Monday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
PFLAG Tulsa is parents, families, and allies showing up for 2SLGBTQIA+ Tulsans: monthly meetings, education, and advocacy. Everyone is welcome. Details at tulsapflag.org and @pflagtulsa. It's a Monday thing, over at Youth Services of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Your friends went. You'll hear about it Wednesday. Or you could just go.
2:00
PM
Tea Party Tuesday
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Tuesday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at OSU Tulsa Campus. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Tuesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, over at Central Park. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at En Fuego. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Sisserou’s Restaurant. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free Admission
108 Contemporary
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at 108 Contemporary. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free Admission
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Cabin Boys Brewpub. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The French Hen. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Guthrie Green is Tulsa's downtown front yard. Show up, find a spot, talk to whoever sits near you. Public space done right. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Gradient Innovation Hub. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Open Mic Night at Gypsy Coffeehouse and Cyber Cafe, Sign-up 6:30 pm, First Artist at 7
Gypsy Coffee House & Cyber Café
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Gypsy Coffee House & Cyber Café. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Tulsa Air and Space Museum (TASM). Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by SAC Gallery of Skiatook. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Cabin Boys Brewery. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Hyatt Gonser. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Half the week already poppin' and you're just now looking. Get in.
8:00
PM
Underwear Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Wednesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Fellowship Congregational Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
“Back for Blood: Never Whistle” and “Still Sovereign: Land, Law, Memory”. Live performance by flautist Aryn Ward (Mvskoke/Yuchi). at Oklahoma Center for the Humanities
Oklahoma Center for the Humanities to 101 E Archer
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Live and loud and better in person, baby. Get there before doors close on the good spots, stand where the sound hits right, and let yourself be the person who sings every word without apology. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Oklahoma Center for the Humanities to 101 E Archer. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
“A Dozen Loops: The Radical Voice of Woody Guthrie” + “Tom Paxton: A Car Full of Songs,” + “The Melody of Riot: Jay Farrar, Son Volt, and the Legacy of Woody Guthrie,” at Woody Guthrie Center
Woody Guthrie Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Woody Guthrie Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Permanent Exhibits and “Thin Wild Mercury: Dylan 1966” + “Face Value” at Bob Dylan Center
Bob Dylan Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Bob Dylan Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free Admission
108 Contemporary
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at 108 Contemporary. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free Admission
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Chrysalis Salon & Spa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour: $1 off glass of wine & local beers, $4.50 mules AND 1/2 price apps with any bar purchase! at The Chowhouse
The Chowhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at The Chowhouse. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Cabin Boys Brewpub. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at En Fuego. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Tulsa Arts District. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Sante Fe Square. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Tavern. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Wing Wednesday, Half Price Traditional Wings at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kids Eat Free!!!! with purchase of an adult entre at The Chowhouse
The Chowhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Chowhouse. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
HotMess Sports Tulsa, the LGBTQ+ rec sports league (kickball, dodgeball, sand volleyball, and more). All skill levels welcome, the whole point is showing up and having a blast. Details and registration on Instagram @hotmesssportstulsa. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at McClure Park Softball Field. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Hogue Gallery | Josh Butts: LIGHT•WEIGHT: Paintings from the Wilderness
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Going solo to HIIT Pilates With Amber is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-16. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at University of Tulsa with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Shared by Sunny Rae Events. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.