THIS WEEK TULSA GAYS

September 14 to September 20, 2026

Tulsa Gays is a free weekly guide to LGBTQ+ events in Tulsa. The list below covers drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, and it is updated every Monday morning.

We found 262 queer events in Tulsa this week across the 245 sources we watch. Of the 36 LGBTQ+ organizations we track here, 34 are covered. We do not claim to have all of it.

Updated September 17, 2026

Nothing to do in Tulsa?
Sounds like a straight person problem.

Tulsa has a bigger, busier LGBTQ+ scene than most people expect. This page rounds up the queer events in Tulsa each week, drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, refreshed every Monday. The scene centers on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and gathering spots like the Tulsa Eagle, Club Majestic, and Yellow Brick Road, Tulsa's lesbian bar.

Gay Score 🦩 Mostly straight 🦩🦩 Gay-friendly 🦩🦩🦩 LGBTQ-friendly 🦩🦩🦩🦩 Very LGBTQIA+ 🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩 Super gay

Thursday

September 17

Thursday is warming up. The people who show up are the ones with the stories.


11:00
PM
Look Who's Hosting Now
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Look Who's Hosting Now →
DRAGNIFICENT! at Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Weekly 18+ drag showcase hosted by Shanel Sterling, featuring local and visiting performers. It's a Thursday thing. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
DRAGNIFICENT! at Club Majestic →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Thursday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour! →
6:00
PM
OkEq Board Meeting
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Queer Crafters Club
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Queer Crafters Club →
6:30
PM
Girl Scout Troop 7484
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Girl Scout Troop 7484 →
6:00
PM
Shop Talk // Drifters Theater & Tulsa artist Clayton Pelotte
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by Art Directors Club of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shop Talk // Drifters Theater & Tulsa artist Clayt… →
W.A.S.P. -1984 TO HEADLESS
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
W.A.S.P. -1984 TO HEADLESS →
8:30
AM
THUMP DNB! W/ NICK LOVIN, SETHSTYLES, FEENIX, MAGE, THUMP DNB CREW
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:30 AM, over at Shared by THUMP DNB. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
THUMP DNB! W/ NICK LOVIN, SETHSTYLES, FEENIX, MAGE… →
10:00
AM
Storytime at Philbrook
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Storytime at Philbrook →
10:30
AM
Fish Feeding
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Fish Feeding →
11:00
AM
Tulsa Greek Festival
1222 S. Guthrie Ave.
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Three days of gyros, baklava, live music, and folk dancing at the 66th annual Tulsa Greek Festival. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 AM - 10:00 PM, over at 1222 S. Guthrie Ave.. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tulsa Greek Festival →
11:00
AM
Cars 20th Anniversary
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
See the Oscar-nominated Pixar classic back on the big screen at the Circle in celebration of the 20th anniversary of the film, and the Route 66 centennial celebrations! Special screening Sat 9/5 with Michael Wallis and Magic City Books - Tickets on sale now for film screening at 3pm, and come early for book sales and signing in the lobby starting at 2pm! Magic City Books will have copies of Michae. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Cars 20th Anniversary →
11:30
AM
COWBOY CARRYOUT - Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana
Pete's Place
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana is a Cowboy Carryout vendor which means you can pickup meals on campus! Big Burrito: Your choice of pork chorizo or chipotle chicken with lettuce, tomato, onions, Spanish rice, shredded cheese, refried beans on a flour tortilla. And a side of tomatillo salsa. | $11.50 Mexican Torta: Your choice of pork chorizo or Mexican style breaded chicken breast. It comes with lettuce, tomato, onions, avocado, cheese, refried beans and mayo on Telera bread | $11.50 Green. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:30 AM, over at Pete's Place. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
COWBOY CARRYOUT - Iris Postres y Cocina Mexicana →
2:00
PM
Suicide Prevention Week
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join the Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling for a fun, interactive tabling event focused on raising awareness about suicide prevention. Stop by to learn about how to support your friends through their struggles, how to recognize warning signs of mental distress, and how to cope with your own mental health struggles. There will be fun giveaways and a chance to win a grand prize! It's a Thursday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Suicide Prevention Week →
5:00
PM
MiniFest Tulsa, OK
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
MiniFest Tulsa, OK →
5:30
PM
Third Thursday Jazz at the Tulsa Club Hotel Featuring Max Holm!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Shared by John Taylor. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Third Thursday Jazz at the Tulsa Club Hotel Featur… →
6:00
PM
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow
Handmade
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accoun. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Handmade. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow →
6:00
PM
The Five-Star Weekend by Elin Hilderbrand
The Bros Houligan
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Hollis Shaw’s life seems picture-perfect. She’s the creator of the popular food blog Hungry with Hollis and is married to Matthew, a dreamy heart surgeon. But after she and Matthew get into a heated argument one snowy morning, he leaves for the airport and is killed in a car accident. The cracks in. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at The Bros Houligan. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Five-Star Weekend by Elin Hilderbrand →
6:00
PM
Fitness on the Green - YMCA Low-Impact
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join the YMCA every Thursday in September for a free low-impact workout at Guthr. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Live Music Thursdays at The Vault
620 S Cincinnati Ave
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Show up for the opener nobody warned you would be that good, sugar. Post up near the bar for an easy refill and a clear view, and stay for the encore the die-hards are already screaming for. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at 620 S Cincinnati Ave. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Live Music Thursdays at The Vault →
6:00
PM
Anne Wilson - Tulsa
Mabee Center - Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Mabee Center - Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Anne Wilson - Tulsa →
6:30
PM
Cocktail Class: Hispanic Heritage Month with Jackie
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Cocktail Class: Hispanic Heritage Month with Jacki… →
6:30
PM
HotMess Sports OKC: Free Corn Hole Open Play
731 NW 23rd St
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at 731 NW 23rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
HotMess Sports OKC: Free Corn Hole Open Play →
7:00
PM
Haywire
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:00
PM
DJ | 2 Legit
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Trivia Night
223 N Main St
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Low stakes, high drama, free to lose your dignity, darling. Get there early to lock down a booth, order a round for the table, and let the tie-breaker bring out a side of you the group has never seen. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 223 N Main St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Trivia Night →
7:00
PM
Open Mic @ Uncle Bentlys
Uncle Bently's Pub & Grill
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Uncle Bently's Pub & Grill. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Open Mic @ Uncle Bentlys →
7:00
PM
The Early Weekend Show - Sept 17
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Shared by Cheyenne Walker. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Early Weekend Show - Sept 17 →
8:00
PM
Live Music - Steve Jones of the Bison
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Thursday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Shared by Sunny Rae Events. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Live Music - Steve Jones of the Bison →
9:00
PM
Live Music Thursdays @ Roof Sixty Six
121 S Elgin Avenue
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The room goes electric the second the band plugs in, darling. Come early enough to grab a spot with sightlines, tip the opener at the merch table, and let one great set reset your whole week. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at 121 S Elgin Avenue. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Live Music Thursdays @ Roof Sixty Six →
9:00
PM
Karaoke with Melissa!
816 S Sheridan Rd
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Somewhere between a talent show and a group hug, sugar. Sign up the second you walk in, order the drink that unlocks your range, and remember the crowd roots hardest for whoever commits the most. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at 816 S Sheridan Rd. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Karaoke with Melissa! →
9:30
PM
Full Flava Kings
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
Patti LaBelle
River Spirit Casino
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Patti LaBelle →
Blue Crew Takeover
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Blue Crew Takeover →
Kit Making Week
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Kit Making Week →
Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Suicide Prevention Tables - Fall 2026 →
Paw Pals - Therapy Dogs
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Paw Pals - Therapy Dogs →
Core With Leta
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Core With Leta →
Dead Theologians Society
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Dead Theologians Society →
CGE Shopping Trips!
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
CGE Shopping Trips! →
UTulsa Maker Club
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at University of Tulsa with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
UTulsa Maker Club →
Movie Night: Lincoln
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Movie Night: Lincoln →
HIIT Pilates With Amber
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
HIIT Pilates With Amber is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-17. Tulsa's queer community runs on people who show up. Be one of them.
HIIT Pilates With Amber →
Public Radio Tulsa Adult Spelling Bee
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Public Radio Tulsa Adult Spelling Bee →
Doormat Decorating
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Doormat Decorating →
Exploring Fiber Arts: Crochet Made Easy
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Attendees will learn the basics of crochet, learning the stitches and terminology that form the base of most crochet patterns. They will create their own swatch to take home, alongside instructions on how to create their first big project. From basic stitches to reading patterns, this class will prepare participants to create their own crochet creations! Best for beginners, but open to all skill levels! For ages 14-Adult. It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Exploring Fiber Arts: Crochet Made Easy →

Friday

September 18

Everyone you know is out tonight. You know that, right?


2:00
PM
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Friday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle →
7:00
PM
ICAO- The Gospel Show
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
ICAO- The Gospel Show →
9:30
PM
Escándalo, hosted by La Franchesqua & King Laylo York, with Shanel Sterling & Kiana D. Jade
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Belly up, tip your bartender like a tithe, and let the room do its thing, darling. Slow at first, electric by midnight. Go before you talk yourself into staying in. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Escándalo, hosted by La Franchesqua & King Laylo Y… →
10:00
PM
TULSA EAGLE COUNTRY NIGHT WITH DJ B/BANISHED
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Wear something you can sweat through, sugar, because a chair is not in your future. Get on that floor in the first twenty minutes, before your nerves start negotiating, and do not you dare leave before the DJ's last song. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
TULSA EAGLE COUNTRY NIGHT WITH DJ B/BANISHED →
9:00
AM
Free Drop-In Therapy Sessions
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
1:00
PM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:00
PM
AFFIRMING (Cancelled)
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
AFFIRM is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy built specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. Free, weekly, in the Wellness Room at the Equality Center. If you know a young queer person who's struggling, this is the program. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Positively Grateful
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
HIV+ support runs on community, and this group has been holding it down every Friday for years. Potluck format, wellness check-ins, real friendships. Bring a dish, leave with a few new numbers in your phone. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Positively Grateful →
7:00
PM
Record Club: Musicals Edition
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Join us for Record Club: Musicals Edition, featuring the music from your favorit. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elote Cafe
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elo… →
Emo Night
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
DVL Club & Lounge, the woman-owned LGBTQ+ bar in Tulsa's Blue Dome District. Details on Instagram @dvltulsa. It's a Friday thing, over at DVL Club & Lounge. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Emo Night →
7:30
PM
Buddy Guy - Tulsa
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Tulsa Theater. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Buddy Guy - Tulsa →
Buddy Guy 90
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Buddy Guy 90 →
10:00
AM
Family Nature Walk
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Family Nature Walk →
11:00
AM
Tulsa Greek Festival
Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The Tulsa Greek Festival serves up three days of authentic Greek food, gyros, souvlaki, baklava, hot loukoumades, plus live music, folk dancing, church tours, and a Greek marketplace. One of the tastiest weekends of the Tulsa year.
Tulsa Greek Festival →
12:00
PM
Parent & Family Weekend Check In
Collins Hall
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Parents & Families: Named for the city of Tulsa’s area code, 918 Day is a civic pride day to celebrate Tulsa’s diverse heritage. We encourage you and your student to explore some of the many opportunities the city has to offer: Attend the 918 Day Festival Shop at a local retailer Eat at one of Tulsa’s many local restaurants Discover a new favorite brew at a local coffee shop Indulge your taste buds with one of our microcreameries Cheers to new friends at one of the microbreweries Explore some ideas here: It's a Friday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Collins Hall. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Parent & Family Weekend Check In →
2:50
PM
American Doctor
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 2:50 PM, 5:30 PM, 8:00 PM. It's a Friday thing, around 2:50 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
American Doctor →
4:30
PM
Live Jazz Night
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
4:30
PM
TEDx Riverfield Country Day School Youth: Where Adventure Meets Excellence
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
4:30
PM
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
5:00
PM
Backyard BBQ Fridays
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Backyard BBQ Fridays →
5:00
PM
918 Day Festival 2026
H.A. Chapman Centennial Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at H.A. Chapman Centennial Green. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
918 Day Festival 2026 →
5:00
PM
Splatter Paint Sessions - ongoing Dates/Times
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Shared by SAC Gallery of Skiatook. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Splatter Paint Sessions - ongoing Dates/Times →
5:30
PM
Friday Night CANASTA - HAND & FOOT
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Step away from the screen and use your brain for something that actually requires other people. Sit down next to a stranger, learn the rules, and talk trash. This is genuinely a great time. It's a Friday thing, around 5:30 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Friday Night CANASTA - HAND & FOOT →
5:30
PM
Philbrook 101: First Look with the Director
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Philbrook 101: First Look with the Director →
5:30
PM
Music at the Museum: Nature & Madness
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If crowds drain you, Music at the Museum: Nature & Madness is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. Find it at Philbrook Museum of Art on 2026-09-18, 5:30 PM and roll in like you own the place. Start at the far end of the gallery and work back so you beat the crowd. Talk to the artists, they want you to.
Music at the Museum: Nature & Madness →
6:00
PM
DJ | Oreo
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Praise and Pass the Paint
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by ZegART Studios. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Praise and Pass the Paint →
6:00
PM
Death Over Dinner
yogaQuest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Death Over Dinner is more than a meal; it's an opportunity to connect through one of life's most meaningful conversations. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at yogaQuest. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Death Over Dinner →
6:30
PM
Celebrate the 918!!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 6:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Celebrate the 918!! →
7:00
PM
DJ | Dust
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Route 66: The Main Street of America - Oklahoma Premiere
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Circle Cinema has been celebrating the centennial of Route 66 all year long, leading up to the Oklahoma premiere of the mother of all Mother Road movies! Friday September 18, the red carpets are rolling out for the debut of Route 66: The Main Street of America with filmmaker John Paget and Route 66 historian Michael Wallis in attendance as special guests. Tickets on sale now, and include admission. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Route 66: The Main Street of America - Oklahoma Pr… →
7:30
PM
The 66 Kicks HOOTENANNY!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The 66 Kicks HOOTENANNY! →
8:00
PM
Nelly
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Aces Wild
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
9:30
PM
Hip Hop Hooray
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
9:45
PM
Pat O'Neill
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If you are seeing the showtime you want to attend is SOLD OUT - Click Here to join our Wait List! You will be notified if additional shows are added! All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium. It's a Friday thing, around 9:45 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Pat O'Neill →
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year)
Broken Arrow Events Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Scotfest Oklahoma brings Highland games, Celtic bands, whisky tastings, and clan villages to Broken Arrow, and 2026 is billed as the final Scotfest after 46 years. If you have ever meant to go, this is your last call to catch the kilts and caber tosses.
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) →
WALTZ
Tulsa Zoo
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Zoo. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
WALTZ →
Members-Only Night at Discovery Lab
Discovery Lab
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Members-Only Night at Discovery Lab →
Falls Prevention Fair
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Falls Prevention Fair →
Parent & Family Weekend: Collins Fitness Center Open House
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Parent & Family Weekend: Collins Fitness Center Op… →
Cyber Fellows Speaker Series, Lauren Myers
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Cyber Fellows Speaker Series, Lauren Myers →
International Student Ministries (ISM) Free Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
International Student Ministries (ISM) Free Lunch →
Jackie Myers Trio
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Jackie Myers Trio →
Sam Morrow with special guest Jim Bachmann
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Sam Morrow with special guest Jim Bachmann →
Club Majestic Friday Night
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Weekly LGBTQIA+ Friday club night with DJ Konnect, dancing, and playful twerk competition. It's a Friday thing. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Club Majestic Friday Night →
Goodfella & When The Clock Strikes
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Friday thing, over at The Vanguard. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Goodfella & When The Clock Strikes →

Saturday

September 19

The weekend peaked. You were either there or you weren't.


1:00
PM
Drag brunch
Sunny rae room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Rhinestones catching the light, a host with a mouth on her, and numbers you will be quoting all week, darling. Post up near the runway, keep your drink in one hand and your tips in the other, and let the queens do the rest. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Sunny rae room. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Drag brunch →
3:00
PM
TULSA EAGLE BINGO
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Saturday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
TULSA EAGLE BINGO →
9:30
PM
Sensational Saturdays: FemmePower
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
The good kind of dive where everybody eventually knows your drink, honey. Come early enough to actually hear the person next to you, grab a stool with a view of the door, and let the regulars fold you in. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 PM - 10:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Sensational Saturdays: FemmePower →
10:00
PM
TULSA EAGLE BEAR NIGHT w/ DR SMILO
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Belly up, tip your bartender like a tithe, and let the room do its thing, darling. Slow at first, electric by midnight. Go before you talk yourself into staying in. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
TULSA EAGLE BEAR NIGHT w/ DR SMILO →
11:00
AM
Muskogee Pride
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Muskogee Pride →
12:00
PM
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
OKEQ's tabletop crew runs the friendliest game night in town. Show up curious, get folded into a one-shot or a long campaign, walk out with a Discord invite. Snacks provided. No D&D experience required. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGs →
1:00
PM
Rainbow Harvest: Free Farmer's Market
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Rainbow Harvest: Free Farmer's Market →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour! →
Fringe Festival
OKEQ (621 E 4th St
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Join us at OKEQ for the inaugural Tulsa Fringe Festival, presented by Oklahomans for Equality, a two-day celebration of bold creativity, original voices, and performances that push. It's a Saturday thing, over at OKEQ (621 E 4th St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fringe Festival →
Love On Hold
Tulsa Opera
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Opera. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Love On Hold →
101 UNPLUGGED: SCHUBERT & BRAHMS
Tulsa Symphony
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Symphony. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
101 UNPLUGGED: SCHUBERT & BRAHMS →
4:00
AM
Tulsa Time: A Laid-Back Evening of Live Music, Conversation & Connection
Tearoom Crumble クランブル
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 AM, over at Tearoom Crumble クランブル. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tulsa Time: A Laid-Back Evening of Live Music, Con… →
8:00
AM
Hiking/Rucking Group
yogaQuest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 AM - 9:00 AM, over at yogaQuest. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Hiking/Rucking Group →
9:30
AM
FREE Sound Bath
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 AM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
FREE Sound Bath →
9:30
AM
Family Field Trip: Roadside Abstractions
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Family Field Trip: Roadside Abstractions →
10:00
AM
Meditation at the Museum
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Meditation at the Museum →
10:00
AM
Sound Bath Meditation in Fly Loft
Fly Loft
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Fly Loft. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
10:30
AM
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things
Foolish Things Coffee
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accountability, and resou. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Foolish Things Coffee. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things →
10:30
AM
Docent-Led Tour: Collection Highlights (10:30am)
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Docent-Led Tour: Collection Highlights (10:30am) →
10:30
AM
Brunch And Learn
6202 South Sheridan Road
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at 6202 South Sheridan Road. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Brunch And Learn →
11:00
AM
Building an Author Platform for Those Who Loathe Selling Themselves | Sept. 19
OSU-Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Building an Author Platform for Those Who Loathe Selling Themselves Saturday, Sept. 19 from 11 a.m.-2 p.m. Online via Zoom Are you worried about finding a publisher? Once published, how will you find your readers? Do you hate “selling yourself” on Facebook and Instagram or think TikTok is for teens? If so, this three-hour workshop is for you. Participants will learn why platform is vital to securing a publication deal and tips and tools to help build that platform. We will talk about how t. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at OSU-Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Building an Author Platform for Those Who Loathe S… →
11:00
AM
Tulsa Greek Festival
Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa Greek Festival is where you go to be around your people without performing for them. Soak it in, say hi to one person, call it a win. Holy Trinity Greek Orthodox Church on 2026-09-19, 11:00 AM - 10:00 PM is where you need to be. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
Tulsa Greek Festival →
12:00
PM
American Doctor
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 12:00 PM, 5:10 PM, 8:30 PM. It's a Saturday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
American Doctor →
2:15
PM
Oklahoma Student Shorts - 918 Film Fest
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Circle Cinema, Tulsa's only nonprofit arthouse movie theater, will host the 918 Film Festival on Saturday, September 19, 2026, with a full day of Oklahoma-made short films, live script readings and a Walk of Fame ceremony honoring art director Chuck Price. Tickets here for Oklahoma Student Shorts program, $10 members and $12 non-members. Oklahoma Student Short Films + Q&A | 2:15pm - 4pm Origin Sto. It's a Saturday thing, around 2:15 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Oklahoma Student Shorts - 918 Film Fest →
3:00
PM
Parent & Family Weekend Check In
Collins Hall
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Stop by Collins Hall to check in, enter the drawing for a UTulsa swag bag, and pick up a special discount card to use at participating Tulsa-based McNellie’s Group restaurants. Families can also pick up complimentary family buttons and stickers to show their UTulsa pride. It's a Saturday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Collins Hall. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Parent & Family Weekend Check In →
4:00
PM
La Fiesta de Tulsa 2026: Festival & Parade
1801 S Garnett Rd
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 1801 S Garnett Rd. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
La Fiesta de Tulsa 2026: Festival & Parade →
4:00
PM
Relaxation Resonance: A Restorative Sound Retreat
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Shared by Open Eye Yoga and Healing Space. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Relaxation Resonance: A Restorative Sound Retreat →
4:30
PM
TFA TOURS | WAREHOUSE MARKET: Deco Masterpiece & Gunboat Park
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The good stuff sells fast and the makers love to talk shop, sugar. Get there near opening, wander the whole row before you commit, and tip your favorite artist with an actual sale, not just a compliment. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
4:30
PM
Day Shift Party
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Day Shift Party →
4:30
PM
Tulsa Short Films - 918 Film Fest
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Circle Cinema, Tulsa's only nonprofit arthouse movie theater, will host the 918 Film Festival on Saturday, September 19, 2026, with a full day of Oklahoma-made short films, live script readings and a Walk of Fame ceremony honoring art director Chuck Price. Tickets here for the Tulsa Short Films - $10 members, $12 non-members. Tulsa Short Films + Q&A | 4:30pm - 6:30pm A Fateful Encounter directed b. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Tulsa Short Films - 918 Film Fest →
5:00
PM
Roughneck Roller Derby September 19th Double Header
Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come support local roller derby! Game 1: Roadkill Rollers vs Dust Devils Junior Derby; Game 2: Roughnecks vs Rolla Rockets. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC). Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Roughneck Roller Derby September 19th Double Heade… →
5:00
PM
Twilight/ Sunset/ Plein air outing
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Shared by Ken Brown. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Twilight/ Sunset/ Plein air outing →
6:00
PM
HORTONFEST REDUX - Tulsa VFW - 09/19/26
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
HORTONFEST REDUX - Tulsa VFW - 09/19/26 →
6:00
PM
DJ | Kelevra
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Beats On 66 V.4
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by Brandon Mull. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Beats On 66 V.4 →
7:00
PM
DWA (Drinking With Atheists)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
DWA (Drinking With Atheists) →
7:00
PM
Thomas Rhett, Tulsa
Tulsa Ok
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Tulsa Ok. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Thomas Rhett, Tulsa →
7:00
PM
DJ | Dust
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is your sign to move like nobody's filming, honey. The floor fills up by eleven, so get loose early and let the bass do your overthinking for you. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Karaoke with Shocka
3820 W Edison
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Darling, this is your Grammy moment and the academy is three drinks deep and adoring. Get your name down early, warm up in the bathroom mirror, and leave nothing on that little stage. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 3820 W Edison. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Karaoke with Shocka →
7:30
PM
Mike Cronin
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Mike Cronin →
8:00
PM
Chaser Crouch
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Ann Wilson of Heart & Tripsitter
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
8:00
PM
The Vibe
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
8:00
PM
5th Annual Best of Tulsa Comedy Competition
Tulsa Comedy Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Nothing bonds a room like laughing at the same thing at the same time, darling. Come a little early, order before the show so you are not that clinking glass, and sit close enough to feel the punchlines land. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Comedy Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
5th Annual Best of Tulsa Comedy Competition →
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year)
Broken Arrow Events Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) asks nothing of you but showing up. No small talk quota, no dress code drama, just a room that's happier with you in it. Broken Arrow Events Park on 2026-09-19, All day is where you need to be. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) →
Saturday Night Lab: Talk Like a Pirate!
Discovery Lab
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Saturday Night Lab: Talk Like a Pirate! →
Gabriel ‘Fluffy’ Iglesias
River Spirit Casino
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Gabriel ‘Fluffy’ Iglesias →
I Can’t Write with Words of the People
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
I Can’t Write with Words of the People →
I Can’t Bollywood Dance with Center for Creativity
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
I Can’t Bollywood Dance with Center for Creativity →
New World, New Voices
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
New World, New Voices →
NOLATET (6:30 p.m.)
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
NOLATET (6:30 p.m.) →
Micah Schanel & Vanessa Jean Speckman with RR Williams & Justin Bloss
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Micah Schanel & Vanessa Jean Speckman with RR Williams & Justin Bloss. It's a Saturday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Micah Schanel & Vanessa Jean Speckman with RR Will… →
Pat O'Neill
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If you are seeing the showtime you want to attend is SOLD OUT - Click Here to join our Wait List! You will be notified if additional shows are added! All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium. It's a Saturday thing, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Pat O'Neill →
Club Majestic Saturday: Shake It Up Saturday
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Weekly 21+ LGBTQIA+ dance party with no cover before 10 except show nights. It's a Saturday thing. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Club Majestic Saturday: Shake It Up Saturday →
TALK LIKE A PIRATE DAY EXTRAVARRGARZARR
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All-ages queer pirate bash with live bands, BBQ from Boomtown, and bar access. It's a Saturday thing. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
TALK LIKE A PIRATE DAY EXTRAVARRGARZARR →
Dark Market Fall Event
Gateway Event Center Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Saturday thing, over at Gateway Event Center Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Dark Market Fall Event →
Vinyl Ranch 19th Anniversary Tour (18+)
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at The Vanguard. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Vinyl Ranch 19th Anniversary Tour (18+) →

Sunday

September 20

You'll wake up Monday wishing you went. We're just saying.


3:00
PM
Drag Bingo
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Sunday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Drag Bingo →
4:00
PM
ICAO Sunday Funday Cookout
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Neon, cheap-enough drinks, and a jukebox with excellent taste, sugar. Post up at the bar, buy a stranger's next round, and watch a quiet Tuesday turn into a story. Earlier for talking, later for trouble. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
ICAO Sunday Funday Cookout →
6:00
PM
SUNDAY SERENADE KARAOKE WITH DJ G RAY
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Sunday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
SUNDAY SERENADE KARAOKE WITH DJ G RAY →
11:00
PM
The Sunday Showdown
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Sunday Showdown →
10:00
AM
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services
All Souls Unitarian Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Sunday thing, around 10:00 AM - 11:15 AM, over at All Souls Unitarian Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services →
11:00
AM
Karaoke Brunch!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Eggs are optional, the gossip is mandatory, baby. Dress like you tried, tip your server like a Parton, and let the bottomless pours do the introductions. Roll in right at the start before the good tables go. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Karaoke Brunch! →
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch
Various locations
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Sunday thing, over at Various locations. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Black Queer Tulsa Monthly Brunch →
12:00
PM
American Doctor
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Special Community Screening Tue 9/22, 6:15pm - scroll down on the list and click the green buy tickets button to join for the reception, panel discussion, screening, and more with Give Gaza Hope and the Gaza Soup Kitchen Clinic. Circle Cinema presents the new documentary from Watermelon Pictures, with screenings starting Fri 9/18. And mark your calendars for the Arab Film Fest Tulsa returning to t Showtimes: 12:00 PM, 3:00 PM, 5:20 PM. It's a Sunday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
American Doctor →
1:00
PM
HotMess Sports OKC: Free Kickball Open Play
Wheeler Park - Eggeling Stadium
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Wheeler Park - Eggeling Stadium. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
HotMess Sports OKC: Free Kickball Open Play →
1:15
PM
ACT Book Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 1:15 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
ACT Book Club →
2:00
PM
Board Games & Brews 🍻🎲
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Step away from the screen and use your brain for something that actually requires other people. Sit down next to a stranger, learn the rules, and talk trash. This is genuinely a great time. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Board Games & Brews 🍻🎲 →
2:00
PM
2026 Miss Oil Patch Pageant
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Shared by Tidewater Winery. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
2026 Miss Oil Patch Pageant →
4:00
PM
Sip & Play: A Community Puzzle Kickback
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Sip & Play: A Community Puzzle Kickback →
4:00
PM
JIMSRUS SUMMER FINALE
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
JIMSRUS SUMMER FINALE →
4:30
PM
Daniel Donato’s Cosmic Country
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Daniel Donato’s Cosmic Country →
5:45
PM
Fall Equinox Meditation
yogaQuest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
As we arrive at the Fall Equinox, we pause to honor the shift in season and turn our attention inward. This evening’s theme,“Ground is Center,”invites us to explore what it means to feel rooted, steady, and connected to ourselves. It's a Sunday thing, around 5:45 PM - 6:45 PM, over at yogaQuest. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Fall Equinox Meditation →
Curator-Led Tour: Roadside Abstractions
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Philbrook offers a curator-led tour of Roadside Abstractions, an exhibit riffing on Route 66 and the American road. A smart, unhurried way to see the show through an expert's eyes.
Curator-Led Tour: Roadside Abstractions →
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year)
Broken Arrow Events Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Broken Arrow Events Park on 2026-09-20, All day is where you need to be. Tulsa's queer community runs on people who show up. Be one of them.
Scotfest Oklahoma (Final Year) →
Members-Only Early Access Hours
Discovery Lab
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, over at Discovery Lab. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Members-Only Early Access Hours →
The Bad Plus Farewell Tour (6:30 p.m.)
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Bad Plus Farewell Tour (6:30 p.m.) →
Bluegrass Brunch with Johnny Mullenax
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Daytime drinking with a side of fabulous, sugar. The patio catches the morning sun and the whole room is dressed to be seen. Get there when the doors open so you land a table in the thick of it, not exiled to the corner. It's a Sunday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Bluegrass Brunch with Johnny Mullenax →
Club Majestic Sunday Showdown
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Weekly 18+ queer open talent and drag showcase featuring limited contestant competition slots. It's a Sunday thing. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Club Majestic Sunday Showdown →
SCHOOL OF ROCK
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, over at The Vanguard. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
SCHOOL OF ROCK →
Earlier This Week

Monday

September 14

This is already happening. Are you there or are you on the couch again?


7:00
PM
Lambda Bowling League
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Lambda Bowling League →
7:00
PM
Monday Movie Night: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Monday Movie Night: The Best Little Whorehouse in … →
8:00
PM
Gaymer Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gaymer Night →
11:00
AM
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park →
11:00
AM
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House
Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Monday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House →
2:00
PM
Happy Hour with Free Pool at Caz’s Pub
Caz’s Pub
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Caz’s Pub. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour with Free Pool at Caz’s Pub →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at in the raw vū
in the raw vū
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour at in the raw vū →
4:00
PM
Sunday & Monday Bar Special at PRHYME
PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
@ Half off bar entrees, & bar snacks when dining in the bar area. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Sunday & Monday Bar Special at PRHYME →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at Saturn Room
Saturn Room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Monday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Saturn Room →
6:00
PM
Tre Lamb Coaches Show at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Monday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tre Lamb Coaches Show at Elgin Park →
8:00
PM
Record Night at Saturn Room
Saturn Room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Record Night at Saturn Room →
Two Eyes streaming
Youth Services of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
PFLAG Tulsa is parents, families, and allies showing up for 2SLGBTQIA+ Tulsans: monthly meetings, education, and advocacy. Everyone is welcome. Details at tulsapflag.org and @pflagtulsa. It's a Monday thing, over at Youth Services of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Two Eyes streaming →

Tuesday

September 15

Your friends went. You'll hear about it Wednesday. Or you could just go.


2:00
PM
Tea Party Tuesday
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Tuesday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tea Party Tuesday →
6:00
PM
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group
OSU Tulsa Campus
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at OSU Tulsa Campus. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Tuesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
10:00
AM
OKEQ Senior's
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series
Central Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, over at Central Park. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series →
11:00
AM
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park →
11:00
AM
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House
Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House →
11:00
AM
Taco Tuesday at En Fuego
En Fuego
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at En Fuego. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Taco Tuesday at En Fuego →
11:00
AM
Jerk Chicken Special at Sisserou’s Restaurant
Sisserou’s Restaurant
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Sisserou’s Restaurant. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Jerk Chicken Special at Sisserou’s Restaurant →
12:00
PM
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free Admission
108 Contemporary
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at 108 Contemporary. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free … →
12:00
PM
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free Admission
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free … →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at Cabin Boys Brewpub
Cabin Boys Brewpub
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Cabin Boys Brewpub. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Cabin Boys Brewpub →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at in the raw vū
in the raw vū
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour at in the raw vū →
4:00
PM
Taco Tuesday Special at The Hunt Club
The Hunt Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Taco Tuesday Special at The Hunt Club →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at PRHYME Bar
PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour at PRHYME Bar →
4:00
PM
French Hen Happy Hour
The French Hen
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The French Hen. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
French Hen Happy Hour →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at Saturn Room
Saturn Room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Tuesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Saturn Room →
6:00
PM
SALT Yoga at Guthrie Green!
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Guthrie Green is Tulsa's downtown front yard. Show up, find a spot, talk to whoever sits near you. Public space done right. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
SALT Yoga at Guthrie Green! →
6:00
PM
Scale Up, Grow & Engage Your Audience at Gradient
Gradient Innovation Hub
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Gradient Innovation Hub. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Scale Up, Grow & Engage Your Audience at Gradient →
6:00
PM
Rum Club at Saturn Room
Saturn Room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Rum Club at Saturn Room →
6:30
PM
Open Mic Night at Gypsy Coffeehouse and Cyber Cafe, Sign-up 6:30 pm, First Artist at 7
Gypsy Coffee House & Cyber Café
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Gypsy Coffee House & Cyber Café. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Open Mic Night at Gypsy Coffeehouse and Cyber Cafe… →
7:00
PM
Hometown Writers Round at The Hunt Club
The Hunt Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Hometown Writers Round at The Hunt Club →
Bling A Book
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Tulsa Air and Space Museum (TASM). Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Bling A Book →
Pressed Flowers Class
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by SAC Gallery of Skiatook. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Pressed Flowers Class →
The 2026 Irish Hooleys: "Shane Hennessy"
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Cabin Boys Brewery. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The 2026 Irish Hooleys: "Shane Hennessy" →
Authentic Relating Lab (Circling)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, over at Shared by Hyatt Gonser. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Authentic Relating Lab (Circling) →

Wednesday

September 16

Half the week already poppin' and you're just now looking. Get in.


8:00
PM
Underwear Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Wednesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Underwear Night →
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting)
Fellowship Congregational Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Fellowship Congregational Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting) →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:30
PM
Smart Recovery Meetings
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Smart Recovery Meetings →
7:00
PM
Gender Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gender Support Group →
12:00
PM
“Back for Blood: Never Whistle” and “Still Sovereign: Land, Law, Memory”. Live performance by flautist Aryn Ward (Mvskoke/Yuchi). at Oklahoma Center for the Humanities
Oklahoma Center for the Humanities to 101 E Archer
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Live and loud and better in person, baby. Get there before doors close on the good spots, stand where the sound hits right, and let yourself be the person who sings every word without apology. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Oklahoma Center for the Humanities to 101 E Archer. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
“Back for Blood: Never Whistle” and “Still Soverei… →
10:00
AM
“A Dozen Loops: The Radical Voice of Woody Guthrie” + “Tom Paxton: A Car Full of Songs,” + “The Melody of Riot: Jay Farrar, Son Volt, and the Legacy of Woody Guthrie,” at Woody Guthrie Center
Woody Guthrie Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Woody Guthrie Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
“A Dozen Loops: The Radical Voice of Woody Guthrie… →
10:00
AM
Permanent Exhibits and “Thin Wild Mercury: Dylan 1966” + “Face Value” at Bob Dylan Center
Bob Dylan Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Bob Dylan Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Permanent Exhibits and “Thin Wild Mercury: Dylan 1… →
11:00
AM
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Lunch Specials at Elgin Park →
11:00
AM
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House
Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Empire Slice House Tulsa / 84 Hospitality Group. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lunch Special at Empire Slice House →
12:00
PM
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free Admission
108 Contemporary
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at 108 Contemporary. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Aaron Jones: Big MOdels at 108 Contemporary, Free … →
12:00
PM
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free Admission
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Scut Work, by Jordan Vinyard at Living Arts, Free … →
12:00
PM
21 and Up, Chrysalis Salon & Spa, Free Admission
Chrysalis Salon & Spa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Chrysalis Salon & Spa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
21 and Up, Chrysalis Salon & Spa, Free Admission →
2:00
PM
Happy Hour: $1 off glass of wine & local beers, $4.50 mules AND 1/2 price apps with any bar purchase! at The Chowhouse
The Chowhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at The Chowhouse. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour: $1 off glass of wine & local beers, $4… →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at Cabin Boys Brewpub
Cabin Boys Brewpub
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Cabin Boys Brewpub. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Cabin Boys Brewpub →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at in the raw vū
in the raw vū
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at in the raw vū. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour at in the raw vū →
3:00
PM
Happy Hour at En Fuego
En Fuego
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at En Fuego. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Happy Hour at En Fuego →
3:00
PM
En Fuego Happy Hour
Tulsa Arts District
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Tulsa Arts District. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
En Fuego Happy Hour →
4:00
PM
White Claws and PBR Tallboys at Hunt Club
The Hunt Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
White Claws and PBR Tallboys at Hunt Club →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at PRHYME Bar
PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at PRHYME: Downtown Steakhouse. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour at PRHYME Bar →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour at Saturn Room
Saturn Room
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at Saturn Room. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Happy Hour at Saturn Room →
4:30
PM
Midweek Market at Santa Fe Square!
Sante Fe Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Sante Fe Square. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Midweek Market at Santa Fe Square! →
5:00
PM
Winesday! at The TAVERN
The Tavern
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Tavern. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Winesday! at The TAVERN →
5:00
PM
Wing Wednesday, Half Price Traditional Wings at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Wing Wednesday, Half Price Traditional Wings at El… →
5:00
PM
Kids Eat Free!!!! with purchase of an adult entre at The Chowhouse
The Chowhouse
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Chowhouse. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kids Eat Free!!!! with purchase of an adult entre … →
5:00
PM
Happy Hour Disc Golf at The Hunt Club
The Hunt Club
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour Disc Golf at The Hunt Club →
6:30
PM
Kickball Open Play
McClure Park Softball Field
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
HotMess Sports Tulsa, the LGBTQ+ rec sports league (kickball, dodgeball, sand volleyball, and more). All skill levels welcome, the whole point is showing up and having a blast. Details and registration on Instagram @hotmesssportstulsa. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at McClure Park Softball Field. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kickball Open Play →
WOW, Worship on Wednesday
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
WOW, Worship on Wednesday →
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch →
HIIT Pilates With Amber
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to HIIT Pilates With Amber is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-09-16. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.
HIIT Pilates With Amber →
Craft and Coffee in McFarlin
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at University of Tulsa with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Craft and Coffee in McFarlin →
CFC 60 second Ski Erg Challenge
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
CFC 60 second Ski Erg Challenge →
Yoga with Jamie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Yoga with Jamie →
Open mic night
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Shared by Sunny Rae Events. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Open mic night →

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