THIS WEEK TULSA GAYS
October 5 to October 11, 2026
Tulsa Gays is a free weekly guide to LGBTQ+ events in Tulsa. The list below covers drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, and it is updated every Monday morning.
We found 203 queer events in Tulsa this week across the 249 sources we watch. Of the 36 LGBTQ+ organizations we track here, 34 are covered. We do not claim to have all of it.
Updated October 7, 2026
Nothing to do in Tulsa?
Sounds like a straight person problem.
Tulsa has a bigger, busier LGBTQ+ scene than most people expect. This page rounds up the queer events in Tulsa each week, drag shows, bar nights, Pride events, and community meetups, refreshed every Monday. The scene centers on the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and gathering spots like the Tulsa Eagle, Club Majestic, and Yellow Brick Road, Tulsa's lesbian bar.
Gay Score
🦩 Mostly straight
🦩🦩 Gay-friendly
🦩🦩🦩 LGBTQ-friendly
🦩🦩🦩🦩 Very LGBTQIA+
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩 Super gay
Wednesday
October 7
Half the week already poppin' and you're just now looking. Get in.
5:30
PM
Queer Women's Collective Tulsa
Yellow Brick Road Pub
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
The good kind of dive where everybody eventually knows your drink, honey. Come early enough to actually hear the person next to you, grab a stool with a view of the door, and let the regulars fold you in. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Yellow Brick Road Pub. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Queer Women's Collective Tulsa →
8:00
PM
Underwear Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Wednesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Underwear Night →
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting)
Fellowship Congregational Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Fellowship Congregational Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Lambda Unity Group (LGBTQ+ AA Meeting) →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
4:00
PM
Queering Body Image Group
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This group provides safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals to connect with others, share their experiences, and provide and receive support, as well as explore body-image, self-esteem, and identity. It aims to build community, strengthen knowledge of local resources, and process the impact of systems of oppressionon mental wellbeing. The group is free to attend, meets in-person and is open to LGBTQ+ adults. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Queering Body Image Group →
6:30
PM
Smart Recovery Meetings
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Smart Recovery Meetings →
6:30
PM
Tulsa Leather Community (TLC) Oklahoma
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Shy? Perfect. Tulsa Leather Community (TLC) Oklahoma runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Find it at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on 2026-10-07, 6:30 PM and roll in like you own the place. This is the heart of queer Tulsa. The front desk will point you to whatever you need. New in town or newly out? Start here.
Tulsa Leather Community (TLC) Oklahoma →
7:00
PM
Gender Support Group
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gender Support Group →
PRIDE Worship Night
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
An affirming LGBTQIA2S+ worship gathering with patio pizza, prayer, Word, sacrament, and song. It's a Wednesday thing. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
PRIDE Worship Night →
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Season
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Tulsa Community College Theatre 2026 to 2027 Seaso… →
7:00
AM
Midweek Meditation (Zoom only)
Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 AM, over at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Midweek Meditation (Zoom only) →
7:30
AM
Vast Bank Art Show: Neon Cowboy by Alexis Frazier,
Vast Bank110 N. Elgin
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:30 AM, over at Vast Bank110 N. Elgin. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Vast Bank Art Show: Neon Cowboy by Alexis Frazier, →
9:30
AM
Little Garden Explorers
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, around 9:30 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Little Garden Explorers →
12:30
PM
Tai Chi
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
OSU-Tulsa Wellness Center hosts fitness classes all semester long including classes for Yoga, Tai Chi and Core & Recovery. Classes are taught in the fitness studio located in North Hall 117 and are for ALL fitness levels. Classes are free for all OSU students, staff and faculty.* Fall 2026 Fitness Class Schedule Yoga: Mondays at 1 p.m.Tuesdays at 3 p.m.Fridays at 12 p.m. Tai Chi: Mondays at 2:30 p.m.Wednesdays at 12:30 p.m. Core and Recovery Tuesdays at 12:30 p.m. *Must have c. It's a Wednesday thing, around 12:30 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tai Chi →
2:00
PM
World Mental Health Day
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join the Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling as we celebrate World Mental Health Day! This year's theme is "Lived Experiences Heard: Real Voices, Real Change," and we want to hear your voice! Stop by the tables to tell us about your self-care practices, learn about mental health around the world, and receive encouragement from your peers. Take a picture with our selfie station and tag us in your social post to be entered to win a $100 Amazon gift card! It's a Wednesday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
World Mental Health Day →
3:00
PM
Trauma Skills Group
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This group provides a supportive environment to learn and practice trauma-related coping strategies in community with others, providing members with tools that they can carry over into their life outside of group. The group is free to attend, meets in-person on Wednesdays from 3-4 pm, and is open to adults in the state of Oklahoma with trauma-related concerns. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Trauma Skills Group →
4:00
PM
White Claws and PBR Tallboys at Hunt Club
The Hunt Club224 N Main
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at The Hunt Club224 N Main. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
White Claws and PBR Tallboys at Hunt Club →
4:30
PM
Midweek Market at Santa Fe Square!
Sante Fe Square415 E 2nd St
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Sante Fe Square415 E 2nd St. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Midweek Market at Santa Fe Square! →
5:00
PM
Mobility Workshop
NORTH HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join the Wellness Center and get mobilized! In this hands on workshop you will better understand how your body moves and ways for you to work and improve you mobility. Mobility Workshops will be on Sept. 9, Oct. 7 and Nov. 11 from 5-6 p.m. Register by emailing tulsa.wellness@okstate.edu with your name and CWID number. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at NORTH HALL. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Mobility Workshop →
5:00
PM
Food Truck Wednesday: Evening Edition
Guthrie Green111 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Your favorite food truck event just got a nighttime upgrade. Join us for Food Tr. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green111 E Reconciliation Way. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Food Truck Wednesday: Evening Edition →
5:00
PM
Wing Wednesday, Half Price Traditional Wings at Elgin Park
Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Elgin Park Brewery325 E Reconciliation Way. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Wing Wednesday, Half Price Traditional Wings at El… →
5:00
PM
Kids Eat Free!!!! with purchase of an adult entre at The Chowhouse
The Chowhouse18 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Chowhouse18 E Reconciliation Way. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kids Eat Free!!!! with purchase of an adult entre … →
5:00
PM
Winesday! at The TAVERN
The Tavern201 N Main
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at The Tavern201 N Main. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Winesday! at The TAVERN →
5:30
PM
Sweata Weatha Swiggin Series 🍂🥃🌰 (NOTE!! Date change)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Sweata Weatha Swiggin Series 🍂🥃🌰 (NOTE!! Date chan… →
5:30
PM
Settle Into Stillness, Roots and Wings Tour: Sound Journey at Cain’s Ballroom
Cain's Ballroom423 N Main
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom423 N Main. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Settle Into Stillness, Roots and Wings Tour: Sound… →
5:30
PM
Thundersleet presents Beth Turner Birthday Celebration at The Hunt Club
The Hunt Club224 N Main
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at The Hunt Club224 N Main. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Thundersleet presents Beth Turner Birthday Celebra… →
6:00
PM
Settle Into Stillness - Roots & Wings Tour
yogaQuest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at yogaQuest. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Settle Into Stillness - Roots & Wings Tour →
6:00
PM
Dungeons and Dragons Group for Interpersonal Goals
MAIN HALL
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
D&D meets therapy! Level up your social and emotional skills by building characters, navigating adventures, and working towards goals around interpersonal growth and selfexploration along with your party. This group meets Wednesdays at 6-7:30 p.m. Registration for Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling groups is required. REGISTER HERE. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at MAIN HALL. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Dungeons and Dragons Group for Interpersonal Goals →
6:00
PM
Inspyral Circus Jam at Guthrie Green
Guthrie Green111 E Reconciliation Way
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come play! Inspyral Circus Jam is a free, community jam open to anyone intereste. It's a Wednesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green111 E Reconciliation Way. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Inspyral Circus Jam at Guthrie Green →
7:00
PM
Transformation Conference: V5
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Transformation Conference: V5 →
7:00
PM
Hart of the Mountains
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Special one-night screening with filmmaker Q&A of this tender new drama from writer Shannon Scruggs and director Bill Doty! Wed 10/7, 7pm - tickets on sale now, $11 members and $13 non-members. Filmed almost entirely in Tulsa and the surrounding areas, we are proud to bring you this heartfelt story of healing and redemption. Many thanks to the people of Tulsa, Sapulpa, and Skiatook for your suppor. It's a Wednesday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Hart of the Mountains →
8:00
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. All showtimes include pre-recorded 15min Q&A with John Wilson after the credits end. It's a Wednesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa State Fair is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. It's happening at Expo Square on 2026-10-07, All day. Worst case you make a new friend, best case it becomes your new Thing.
Tulsa State Fair →
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Library
McFarlin Library
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This exhibition, created with the support of The Hardesty Family Foundation, is the second in a series of rotating exhibits in McFarlin Library, established with the goal of highlighting the wonderful work created by UTulsa students. The exhibition features artworks created by students from across the university and encompasses a wide range of art media, […] \n. It's a Wednesday thing, over at McFarlin Library. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Librar… →
Anxiety Reset
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Anxiety Reset →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
Waffle Days
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Think of Waffle Days as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Tulsa Community College on 2026-10-07 is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Waffle Days →
An Evening with John Green
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
An Evening with John Green →
Fresh Check Day
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fresh Check Day →
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
101 Archer Gallery | Back for Blood: Never Whistle →
WOW, Worship on Wednesday
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
WOW, Worship on Wednesday →
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Little Blue House | Free Veggie Lunch →
Money Mind$et: Banking Smart Workshop
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Money Mind$et: Banking Smart Workshop →
HIIT Pilates With Amber
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Shy? Perfect. HIIT Pilates With Amber runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-07. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
HIIT Pilates With Amber →
Yoga with Jamie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Yoga with Jamie →
QPR Training: CPR for Mental Health
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Wednesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
QPR Training: CPR for Mental Health →
Steve Hofstetter at Bricktown Comedy Club - Tulsa
FRI
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Sit close enough to be in danger, laugh from your belly, and chat up the folks beside you at the break. Live comedy in a small room hits different, sugar. Get there early for the seats the comics actually look at. It's a Wednesday thing, over at FRI. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Steve Hofstetter at Bricktown Comedy Club - Tulsa →
Thursday
October 8
Thursday is warming up. The people who show up are the ones with the stories.
10:00
PM
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Weekly Thursday drag show hosted by the legendary Shanel Sterling. High energy, great performances. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
DRAGNIFICENT! Drag Show →
11:00
PM
The New Kidz
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Thursday thing, around 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The New Kidz →
DRAGNIFICENT! at Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Thursday-night drag show hosted by Shanel Sterling, featuring local performers and visiting guests. It's a Thursday thing. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
DRAGNIFICENT! at Club Majestic →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Thursday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour! →
6:00
PM
Queer Crafters Club
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
You do not need to know what you're doing. Just show up at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St with your hands and your personality. LGBTQIA+ people creating things together is magic, and you'll leave with something to show for it. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Queer Crafters Club →
6:30
PM
Girl Scout Troop 7484
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Girl Scout Troop 7484 →
9:00
PM
Sapphic Dance Party at 473
Four. Seven. Three. (473)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Get ready to dance the night away at Sapphic Dance Party, the ultimate vibe at 473! It's a Thursday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at Four. Seven. Three. (473). Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Sapphic Dance Party at 473 →
The Woman in Black
Theatre Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, over at Theatre Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The Woman in Black →
10:00
AM
Storytime at Philbrook
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Storytime at Philbrook →
12:20
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. All showtimes include pre-recorded 15min Q&A with John Wilson after the credits end. Showtimes: 12:20 PM, 5:00 PM, 7:30 PM. It's a Thursday thing, around 12:20 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
4:30
PM
Global Vision Awards Gala
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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5:00
PM
Blues Society of Tulsa Blues Challenge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Shared by Blues Society of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Blues Society of Tulsa Blues Challenge →
5:30
PM
Money Multiplier Masterclass (FREE)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, around 5:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Money Multiplier Masterclass (FREE) →
6:00
PM
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow
Handmade
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accoun. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Handmade. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Handmade Broken Arrow →
6:00
PM
Fitness on the Green - RunWalk Tulsa
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join RunWalk Tulsa every Thursday in October at 6:00 PM for Fitness on the Green. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Guthrie Green. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
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6:30
PM
2nd Thursday Game Night: A Singles Social Event
Studio Nine18
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join us for 2nd Thursday Game Night, a fun singles social where you can play games and meet new people in person! It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Studio Nine18. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
2nd Thursday Game Night: A Singles Social Event →
6:30
PM
Veg out at Copaneazi's Pizza South
Copaneazi's
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
SKIP COOKING. You’ve got pizza waiting at Copaneazi’s Pizza South. Vegan? Vegetarian? Plant-based curious? Pizza enthusiast with a complicated relationship with cheese? Come join us! Copaneazi’s Pizza South has plenty of vegetarian and vegan options, so there’s plenty going on. And, yes, yo. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Copaneazi's. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Veg out at Copaneazi's Pizza South →
6:30
PM
MIX Workshop: The Art of Gin & Food Pairing
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
MIX Workshop: The Art of Gin & Food Pairing →
6:30
PM
Christmas Rehearsal - Thurs., Oct 8th
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Shared by Tulsa Metro Sound. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Christmas Rehearsal - Thurs., Oct 8th →
6:30
PM
FOUR DAYS IN THE ILLINOIS COUNTRY; OR “L’ESPRIT DE L’ESCALIER”
Flagship / Tulsa Artist Fellowship
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa Artist Fellowship is excited to partner with Counterpublic to presentFour Days in the Illinois Country; or “L’Esprit de L’Escalier,”an event series exploring land-based approaches to art and artistic approaches to territory, running October 8-11 in St. Louis, MO. It's a Thursday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Flagship / Tulsa Artist Fellowship. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
FOUR DAYS IN THE ILLINOIS COUNTRY; OR “L’ESPRIT DE… →
7:00
PM
Your Fun&Social Fall Plans: Bowling + Beers + New Friends 🍂🎳
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**🍂 Fall Into Fun with Our Social Bowling League!** Fill up your Fall social calendar now - join our **6-week social bowling league**! Whether you’re a strike machine or you’ve never bowled without the bumpers, this league is all about good times, chill vibes, and meeting great people in Tulsa - **b. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Your Fun&Social Fall Plans: Bowling + Beers + New … →
7:00
PM
DJ | 2 Legit
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Green Country Bears Monthly Meetup
Restaurant (varies
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Monthly dinner meetup for bears and friends. Chill vibes, good food, friendly crowd. It's a Thursday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Restaurant (varies. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Green Country Bears Monthly Meetup →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa State Fair is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. Catch it at Expo Square on 2026-10-08, All day. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.
Tulsa State Fair →
Journey
BOK Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at BOK Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Journey →
TCC Concert Band & Community Band Concert
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Show up for the opener nobody warned you would be that good, sugar. Post up near the bar for an easy refill and a clear view, and stay for the encore the die-hards are already screaming for. It's a Thursday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
TCC Concert Band & Community Band Concert →
Episcopal Campus Ministry Morning Prayer Time
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Episcopal Campus Ministry Morning Prayer Time →
Core With Leta
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Thursday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Core With Leta →
Free Thursday Lunch at Wesley
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Think of Free Thursday Lunch at Wesley as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-08. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
Free Thursday Lunch at Wesley →
Dead Theologians Society
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Think of Dead Theologians Society as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-08. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
Dead Theologians Society →
October Gallery Hours
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Living Arts of Tulsa is open for viewing Tuesday - Saturday from 12:00 - 4:00 PM and does not charge admission to view exhibitions! It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
October Gallery Hours →
Exploring Fiber Arts: Crochet Made Easy
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Guided by Carolyn Argo, attendees will learn the basics of crochet, learning the stitches and terminology that form the base of most crochet patterns. They will create their own swatch to take home, alongside instructions on how to create their first big project. From basic stitches to reading patterns, this class will prepare participants to create their own crochet creations! Best for beginners, but open to all skill levels! For ages 14-Adult. It's a Thursday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Exploring Fiber Arts: Crochet Made Easy →
Friday
October 9
Everyone you know is out tonight. You know that, right?
2:00
PM
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Friday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Friday Happy Hour at Tulsa Eagle →
9:30
PM
Bad Boys On The Block
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Club Majestic, Tulsa's flagship LGBTQ+ nightclub downtown. Details on Instagram @clubmajestictulsa. It's a Friday thing, around 9:30 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Bad Boys On The Block →
10:00
PM
BLOOD ON THE DANCE FLOOR DISCO with DR SMILO
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Baby, your hips have been waiting all week for this. Get there before the crowd peaks so you can actually find your groove, then dance until your feet file a complaint. It's a Friday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
BLOOD ON THE DANCE FLOOR DISCO with DR SMILO →
9:00
AM
Free Drop-In Therapy Sessions
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
1:00
PM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Friday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
OKEQ Health Clinic →
6:00
PM
AFFIRMING
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
AFFIRM is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy built specifically for LGBTQ+ youth. Free, weekly, in the Wellness Room at the Equality Center. If you know a young queer person who's struggling, this is the program. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
6:00
PM
Positively Grateful
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
HIV+ support runs on community, and this group has been holding it down every Friday for years. Potluck format, wellness check-ins, real friendships. Bring a dish, leave with a few new numbers in your phone. It's a Friday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elote Cafe
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
The mic does not care if you can sing, honey, it cares if you mean it. Slide your slip in early, cheer loud for every nervous soul before you, and pick the song you belt in the car with the windows down. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Weekend Karaoke: Friday and Saturday Nights at Elo… →
Art Crawl on 66 (Red Fork)
Historic Red Fork District
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
Art Crawl on 66 turns the historic Red Fork District into a walkable evening of galleries, makers, and live music along Route 66. A laid-back, local night out on the Mother Road.
Art Crawl on 66 (Red Fork) →
12:20
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. All showtimes include pre-recorded 15min Q&A with John Wilson after the credits end. Showtimes: 12:20 PM, 2:30 PM, 5:20 PM. It's a Friday thing, around 12:20 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
4:30
PM
Route 66 Pumpkin Festival
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
6:30
PM
MIX 2026
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
MIX 2026 →
7:00
PM
DJ | Tnice
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Friday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
7:30
PM
Nanyehi
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
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8:00
PM
Houndmouth
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Cain's Ballroom. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Houndmouth →
8:00
PM
Jason Pritchett
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Michele and Soupbone at Mooney’s Sunset Bar and Grill Grand Lake
Bryson Day Travieso
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Bryson Day Travieso. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Michele and Soupbone at Mooney’s Sunset Bar and Gr… →
9:00
PM
DJ | 2 Legit
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Friday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
9:45
PM
Hans Kim
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Friday thing, around 9:45 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Hans Kim →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa State Fair is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. It's happening at Expo Square on 2026-10-09, All day. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.
Tulsa State Fair →
ROCK THE BLOCK
BOK Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at BOK Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
ROCK THE BLOCK →
ELLA LANGLEY
BOK Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, over at BOK Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
ELLA LANGLEY →
XFN 413
River Spirit Casino
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Friday thing, over at River Spirit Casino. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
XFN 413 →
October OK So: THRILLER
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Once a month we come together and hear people tell TRUE (funny, serious, sad, harrowing, interesting) stories about their lives. HOW DOES A STORY SLAM WORK? Every event has a theme, and everyone in the audience is invited to share a personal story related to the theme. This month the theme is THRILLER. Plenty of stories can be molded to fit this theme, so BE BRAVE and come and put your name in the hat! If you have a story you want to tell, leave us your name at the door. Ev. It's a Friday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
October OK So: THRILLER →
Bob Dylan Center Presents: An Evening with Nellie McKay
LowDown Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at LowDown Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Bob Dylan Center Presents: An Evening with Nellie … →
Casper McWade Birthday Double Headline!
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Casper McWade Birthday Double Headline! →
Heroes and Villains Halloween Party
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Friday thing, over at Shared by Pup Hoss - Haus of Hoss. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Heroes and Villains Halloween Party →
King Iso - Ghetto Psycho Tour
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Friday thing, over at The Vanguard. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
King Iso - Ghetto Psycho Tour →
Saturday
October 10
The weekend peaked. You were either there or you weren't.
10:00
AM
Drag Brunch : oct. 10th - scream queens (halloween)
Elote Cafe & Catering
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Monthly drag brunch with themed shows. All ages. Two seatings. Delicious food and fierce performances. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Elote Cafe & Catering. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Drag Brunch : oct. 10th - scream queens (halloween… →
11:00
AM
Scream Queens Drag Brunch
Elote Cafe
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Honey, these queens did not beat that face for you to lurk in the back. Get to the rail, bring your singles, and tip like you mean it. Come early for the looks, stay late for when they stop being polite. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM - 1:30 PM, over at Elote Cafe. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Scream Queens Drag Brunch →
6:00
PM
Kowboy Hugs and Drag Queen Kisses Benefit Show
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Baby, the lip sync is a contact sport and you are in the splash zone. Show up while the house lights are still up to snag a spot near the stage, then let a six-foot goddess in heels remind you why you left the house. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Shared by Stacy Gorley. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kowboy Hugs and Drag Queen Kisses Benefit Show →
7:00
PM
GPRA OCT SHOW
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
The good kind of dive where everybody eventually knows your drink, honey. Come early enough to actually hear the person next to you, grab a stool with a view of the door, and let the regulars fold you in. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
GPRA OCT SHOW →
10:00
PM
WAR OF THE WORLDS TECHNO PARTY WITH DJ HAZE
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 PM, over at 1338 E 3rd St. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
WAR OF THE WORLDS TECHNO PARTY WITH DJ HAZE →
Drag Brunch Presented by Elote
Bryson Day Travieso
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Darling, this is the closest thing Tulsa has to church. Front row, fresh dollar bills, and a gasp ready in your throat. The opening number warms you up, but the late set is where the wigs and the inhibitions both come off. It's a Saturday thing, over at Bryson Day Travieso. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Drag Brunch Presented by Elote →
1:00
PM
Rainbow Harvest
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Rainbow Harvest →
4:00
PM
Happy Hour!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Do not go and stand in the corner on your phone. Go up to someone with a great outfit, compliment them, and start a conversation. You will leave with at least three new friends and a story worth telling. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 PM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Happy Hour! →
7:30
PM
Best Little Rocky Whorehouse Picture Show
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Best Little Rocky Whorehouse Picture Show →
4:00
AM
Second Saturday Half Day Practice
Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Shambhala is genuinely one of the most welcoming meditation spaces in Tulsa, full stop. No experience needed, no incense pressure, no weird vibes. Walk in, sit down, and let an hour of quiet do its work. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:00 AM, over at Shambhala Meditation Center of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Second Saturday Half Day Practice →
10:00
AM
Fall Mindful Meditation with AT EASE Meditation
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Mindful Meditation with AT EASE Meditation →
10:00
AM
Fallbrook Saturday
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fallbrook Saturday →
10:00
AM
Hominy Indigenous Heritage Day 4th Annual Meat Pie Contest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Shared by Hominy Heritage Association. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Hominy Indigenous Heritage Day 4th Annual Meat Pie… →
10:30
AM
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things
Foolish Things Coffee
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
**[Click here to learn more about Shut Up & SUAW hosts free in-person and online writing events for writers all over the world. Our goal is to ensure that every writer, regardless of genre or skill level, has access to the community, accountability, and resou. It's a Saturday thing, around 10:30 AM, over at Foolish Things Coffee. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Shut Up & Write!® at Foolish Things →
11:00
AM
Campus Tulsa Presents "What's Next?!"
Guthrie Green
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
What's Next is a free career and culture festival in Tulsa, built to connect college students with the people, employers and community that could shape their future. Over three days, student get real conversations with local employers, a taste of Tulsa's culture and a low-pressure look at building a career, and a life, in Tulsa could feel like. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Guthrie Green. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Campus Tulsa Presents "What's Next?!" →
11:00
AM
Leadership for an Age of Higher Consciousness
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Shared by Brittany Bailey. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Leadership for an Age of Higher Consciousness →
11:00
AM
2nd Saturday Silent: Ella Cinders
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
As America celebrates the centennial of Route 66 this year, the Second Saturday Silent Series will pay tribute by screening films from 1926 all year long! The Second Saturday Silent Series invites you to can experience movies like they did a hundred years ago with authentic accompaniment on a vintage theatre pipe organ! The movie accompaniment will be played by Bill Rowland, and walk-in music by M. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at Circle Cinema. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
2nd Saturday Silent: Ella Cinders →
11:30
AM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. All showtimes include pre-recorded 15min Q&A with John Wilson after the credits end. Showtimes: 11:30 AM, 5:20 PM, 8:00 PM. It's a Saturday thing, around 11:30 AM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
1:00
PM
NEVERMORE SEASON: Punkin Family Comedy Show
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Nothing bonds a room like laughing at the same thing at the same time, darling. Come a little early, order before the show so you are not that clinking glass, and sit close enough to feel the punchlines land. It's a Saturday thing, around 1:00 PM. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
NEVERMORE SEASON: Punkin Family Comedy Show →
2:00
PM
Docent-Led Tour: Collection Highlights
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Docent-Led Tour: Collection Highlights →
4:30
PM
Second Saturday Coffee Cupping at Vast
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
5:00
PM
Roughneck Roller Derby October 10th Double Header
Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come support local roller derby! Game 1: Junior Roller Derby Mashup; Game 2: Roughneck Home Teams, Cherry Bombs vs Red Dirt Rollers. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Rhema Ninowski Recreation Center (NRC). Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Roughneck Roller Derby October 10th Double Header →
5:00
PM
Canvas & Couture 'Fire Frost & Fashion' Fashion Show
Atlas Lifestyle Building
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Get ready to mix fiery vibes with frosty styles in a fashion show that’s all about bold looks and cool moves. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:00 PM, over at Atlas Lifestyle Building. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Canvas & Couture 'Fire Frost & Fashion' Fashion Sh… →
5:30
PM
Blackwood CultureFest 2026
907 S Detroit Ave
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come ready to dance, meet somebody new, catch a vibe & experience a night built for US! | FULL DAY: 5:30-11:59PM | PARTY ONLY: 8-11:59PM. It's a Saturday thing, around 5:30 PM, over at 907 S Detroit Ave. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Blackwood CultureFest 2026 →
6:30
PM
Samuel J Comroe
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Saturday thing, around 6:30 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Samuel J Comroe →
7:00
PM
Psychic Slumber Party (sliding scale paid event)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This is a Premier Event meaning that there is a fee associated (sliding scale of $11-$25). This fee helps support Awkwardly Zen and our awesome [Awkwardly Zen TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED AT THIS LINK TO ATTEND THIS EVENT: It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Psychic Slumber Party (sliding scale paid event) →
7:00
PM
DJ | Tnice
Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Amp Bar at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Riverbend with special guest Q&A
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Circle Cinema is proud to welcome actor Julius Tennon back to Tulsa for a special one-night screening of Riverbend (1989) along with actress Vanessa Tate-Goodrich and Reelblack's Michael J. Dennis in attendance for a Q&A! Tickets $13 members, $15 non-members. Reelblack recently completed restoration work on the classic film Riverbend and have been touring the country for screenings, and now come b. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Riverbend with special guest Q&A →
7:30
PM
The 66 Kicks Improv Comedy Show: HALLOWEEN SPECIAL!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Grab a drink, sit a few rows back if you scare easy, and let a stranger with a mic ruin your composure, honey. The early crowd gets the tight seats and the best crowd work, so do not stroll in late. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
The 66 Kicks Improv Comedy Show: HALLOWEEN SPECIAL… →
7:30
PM
Nanyehi
Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 7:30 PM, over at Hard Rock Live at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Saxophonist Joyce Spencer Live at LowDown Tulsa!
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Shared by John Taylor. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Saxophonist Joyce Spencer Live at LowDown Tulsa! →
8:00
PM
Charlie McCabe
Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Track 5 at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
8:00
PM
Zodiac
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Event details →
9:00
PM
DJ | 2 Legit
Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A proper queer dance floor is cheaper than therapy and twice as fun, sugar. Show up an hour in when the room is warm but not packed, find your people by the light rig, and let the night take the wheel. It's a Saturday thing, around 9:00 PM, over at Riffs at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Event details →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
If crowds drain you, Tulsa State Fair is the gentle version: slip in, find the edge of the room, and let it come to you at your own speed. Find it at Expo Square on 2026-10-10, All day and roll in like you own the place. Worst case you make a new friend, best case it becomes your new Thing.
Tulsa State Fair →
CECE WINANS
BOK Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Saturday thing, over at BOK Center. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
CECE WINANS →
Starbomb featuring DJ Commander Meouch
Cain's Ballroom
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Lights low, bass high, and a room full of people who came to lose it, darling. Stake out a spot near the speakers, hydrate like it is a personality trait, and stay for the set the DJ saves for the real ones. It's a Saturday thing, over at Cain's Ballroom. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Starbomb featuring DJ Commander Meouch →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
I Can’t Sew a Book Buncher with Center for Creativity
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
I Can’t Sew a Book Buncher with Center for Creativ… →
I Can’t Weave with 108 Contemporary
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Saturday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
I Can’t Weave with 108 Contemporary →
Skeleton Workshop: Skeleton Template Version
Living Arts of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
We want your family to walk in the skeleton parade during the Dia de los Muertos Arts Festival! We'll be having a guided skeleton building workshop on October 10 AND October 11 open to the whole family. A $15 version is available if you’d prefer to decorate a ready-made two dimensional skeleton template! The $15 is per template. All supplies will be included in both versions. Come create your skeleton with us so we can bring the parade to life! It's a Saturday thing, over at Living Arts of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Skeleton Workshop: Skeleton Template Version →
Jared Hard Album Release Show
Mercury Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Saturday thing, over at Mercury Lounge. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Jared Hard Album Release Show →
Cherokee Art Market
Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Bring cash and a little more willpower than usual, because the artists here are talented and you are weak, darling. Talk to the makers, ask about the work, and go early while the good pieces are still on the table. It's a Saturday thing, over at Hard Rock Hotel & Casino Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Cherokee Art Market →
United We Dance: Festival Energy. All Night. (18+)
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Wear something you can sweat through, sugar, because a chair is not in your future. Get on that floor in the first twenty minutes, before your nerves start negotiating, and do not you dare leave before the DJ's last song. It's a Saturday thing, over at The Vanguard. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
United We Dance: Festival Energy. All Night. (18+) →
Sunday
October 11
You'll wake up Monday wishing you went. We're just saying.
9:30
PM
The Rocky Horror Picture Show
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Neon, cheap-enough drinks, and a jukebox with excellent taste, sugar. Post up at the bar, buy a stranger's next round, and watch a quiet Tuesday turn into a story. Earlier for talking, later for trouble. It's a Sunday thing, around 9:30 PM - 11:00 PM, over at Club Majestic. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
The Rocky Horror Picture Show →
The Sunday Showdown! Open Talent Night
Club Majestic
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Sunday talent showcase hosted by Shanel Sterling, featuring Scrappy Legacy and Londenn Davenport Raine. It's a Sunday thing, over at Club Majestic. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The Sunday Showdown! Open Talent Night →
10:00
AM
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services
All Souls Unitarian Church
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
One of the most affirming spaces in Tulsa for LGBTQIA+ people of faith and skeptics alike. Walk in exactly as you are. You will feel it immediately. It's a Sunday thing, around 10:00 AM - 11:15 AM, over at All Souls Unitarian Church. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
All Souls Unitarian Sunday Services →
11:00
AM
Karaoke Brunch!
DVL Club & Lounge
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Eggs are optional, the gossip is mandatory, baby. Dress like you tried, tip your server like a Parton, and let the bottomless pours do the introductions. Roll in right at the start before the good tables go. It's a Sunday thing, around 11:00 AM, over at 302 South Frankfort Avenue. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Karaoke Brunch! →
Jim Henson’s Labyrinth: In Concert 40th Anniversary
Tulsa Theater
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩LGBTQ-friendly
The room goes electric the second the band plugs in, darling. Come early enough to grab a spot with sightlines, tip the opener at the merch table, and let one great set reset your whole week. It's a Sunday thing, over at Tulsa Theater. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Jim Henson’s Labyrinth: In Concert 40th Anniversar… →
12:00
PM
Fall Films at the Museum: You've Got Mail (1998)
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Fall Films at the Museum: You've Got Mail (1998) →
12:00
PM
Fallbrook Sunday
Philbrook Museum of Art
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Sunday thing, around 12:00 PM, over at Philbrook Museum of Art. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Fallbrook Sunday →
12:15
PM
My Brother's Killer- Documentary Screening and Discussion
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Members of LA's gay community solve a notorious murder in Los Angeles when they link it to a hate crime in Oklahoma. It's a Sunday thing, around 12:15 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
My Brother's Killer- Documentary Screening and Dis… →
2:00
PM
Bowling & Socializing @ AMF Sheridan Lanes
AMF Sheridan Lanes
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Hey everyone, come join me for a relaxed Sunday afternoon of bowling and hanging out at AMF Sheridan Lanes. This is a casual, low-pressure event, you don’t need to be outgoing or experienced. Whether you want to bowl, chat a bit, or just be around other people, you’re welcome to come as you are. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:00 PM, over at AMF Sheridan Lanes. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Bowling & Socializing @ AMF Sheridan Lanes →
2:40
PM
The History of Concrete
Circle Cinema
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
A filmmaker applies lessons from a Hallmark movie writing workshop to pitch a documentary about concrete. All showtimes include pre-recorded 15min Q&A with John Wilson after the credits end. Showtimes: 2:40 PM, 7:40 PM. It's a Sunday thing, around 2:40 PM, over at Circle Cinema. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The History of Concrete →
3:00
PM
Conscious Conversations (second Sunday monthly)
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Sunday thing, around 3:00 PM, over at Shared by Open Eye Yoga and Healing Space. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Conscious Conversations (second Sunday monthly) →
4:30
PM
Route 66 Pumpkin Festival
Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 4:30 PM, over at Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
5:30
PM
**New Date** 🎠 Rides, Games & Cows
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Sunday thing, around 5:30 PM. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
**New Date** 🎠 Rides, Games & Cows →
5:45
PM
Yoga Nidra
yogaQuest
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Join us for Yoga Nidra, a guided meditation experience often called yogic sleep. With a deep guided relaxation, you'll be invited into a state between wakefulness and sleep where the body can restore, the mind can quiet, and the nervous system can reset. It's a Sunday thing, around 5:45 PM - 6:45 PM, over at yogaQuest. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Yoga Nidra →
6:00
PM
Comedy Death Match
Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
All shows are 18+ with valid ID unless stated otherwise. Seats only guaranteed until showtime. Ticket price is more expensive at the door (if any remain). Premium seating is in the front couple of rows. GA is first come, first serve. No refunds on any ticket purchase. 2-item minimum in showroom. This can be food, alcohol, or non-alcoholic beverages. Show/Doors Times. It's a Sunday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at Bricktown Comedy Club Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Comedy Death Match →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to Tulsa State Fair is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Expo Square on 2026-10-11, All day is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Tulsa State Fair →
Food and Hygiene Drive
Tulsa Community College
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Sunday thing, over at Tulsa Community College. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Food and Hygiene Drive →
LIVE`Stream@!~ USKA Karaoke Cup Qualifier, Tulsa 2026 - Livestream
Messages
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Pick something gloriously embarrassing and commit to the bit, baby. Nobody in this room is judging, and the brave soul who signs up first always has the best night. Get your name on the list early so you go before the catalog fills up. It's a Sunday thing, over at Messages. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
LIVE`Stream@!~ USKA Karaoke Cup Qualifier, Tulsa 2… →
Joe Jordan - The Heart Sessions Tour
The Vanguard
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Sunday thing, over at The Vanguard. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Joe Jordan - The Heart Sessions Tour →
Earlier This Week
Monday
October 5
This is already happening. Are you there or are you on the couch again?
7:00
PM
Lambda Bowling League
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
LGBTQIA+ bowling leagues are pure community gold. Show up even if you haven't bowled in years. Nobody's judging your form. Everyone's glad you made it out. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Lambda Bowling League →
7:00
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Monday Movie Night: The Wolfman
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 7:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Monday Movie Night: The Wolfman →
8:00
PM
Gaymer Night
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Monday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Gaymer Night →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The Tulsa State Fair is Oklahoma's largest annual fair, eleven days of midway rides, livestock shows, concerts, contests, and every fried food you can imagine at Expo Square. Bring your appetite and your stretchy pants.
Tulsa State Fair →
Night Out Painting @ Smitty's Garage-71st Tulsa
Created by Myria Brown
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Monday thing, over at Created by Myria Brown. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Night Out Painting @ Smitty's Garage-71st Tulsa →
Tuesday
October 6
Your friends went. You'll hear about it Wednesday. Or you could just go.
2:00
PM
Tea Party Tuesday
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
This is where Tulsa's queer crowd unwinds and it shows, baby. Roll in before the rush for a real seat, tip well, and stay long enough to catch the moment the whole bar starts singing along. It's a Tuesday thing, around 2:00 PM - 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tea Party Tuesday →
6:00
PM
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group
OSU Tulsa Campus
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
You don't have to have it together to walk in. That's literally the whole point. Show up, listen, share if you're ready, and remember you are not the only one going through it. It's a Tuesday thing, around 6:00 PM, over at OSU Tulsa Campus. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
OSU Tulsa Queer Support Group →
8:00
PM
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke
Tulsa Eagle
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Super gay
Tulsa Eagle, Tulsa's levi-leather LGBTQ+ bar. Details on Instagram @tulsaeagle. It's a Tuesday thing, around 8:00 PM, over at Tulsa Eagle. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tulsa Eagle Tuesday Karaoke →
9:00
AM
OKEQ Health Clinic
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 9:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
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10:00
AM
OKEQ Senior's
Dennis R. Neill Equality Center
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
This space at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E 4th St is the heartbeat of Tulsa's LGBTQIA+ community. Walk in. Say hi to someone. Life genuinely gets better when you show up for your community. It's a Tuesday thing, around 10:00 AM, over at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Event details →
7:00
PM
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series
Central Park
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Very LGBTQIA+
Get there before the first note, find your spot, and let yourself feel something for once, honey. Tulsa's live music is criminally underrated. Early gets you close; close gets you a story. It's a Tuesday thing, around 7:00 PM - 9:00 PM, over at Central Park. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Tuesdays in the Park Concert Series →
Tulsa State Fair
Expo Square
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Tulsa State Fair is the rare plan that costs no energy: come as you are, stay an hour, and leave whenever you want. That's the whole deal. Catch it at Expo Square on 2026-10-06, All day. Worst case you make a new friend, best case it becomes your new Thing.
Tulsa State Fair →
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Library
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Spotlight Student Art Exhibition | McFarlin Librar… →
Good Deed Day
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Good Deed Day →
Cycle With Katie
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Put on the look, bring a friend or bring your nerve, and let Tulsa show you a good time.
Cycle With Katie →
Indigenous Independence: America at 250
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Indigenous Independence: America at 250 →
Free Tuesday Lunch at St. Philip Neri
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
This one's got your name on it, sugar. Walk in like you own a little piece of the place, because tonight you do. Show up near the start so you catch the good part before the crowd does. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Free Tuesday Lunch at St. Philip Neri →
Baptist Collegiate Ministries Mentor Lunch
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Baptist Collegiate Ministries Mentor Lunch →
Wesley Men’s Group
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Shy? Perfect. Wesley Men’s Group runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. It's happening at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06. You belong in that room, so go claim your spot.
Wesley Men’s Group →
French Conversation Group
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Consider this your formal invitation to leave the couch, darling. Roll in early, say yes to the first thing that sounds fun, and let the night surprise you. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
French Conversation Group →
Yoga With Leta
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Small effort, real payoff, sugar. Show up near the top, park yourself somewhere you can people-watch and be watched, and let leaving the house feel like the easy win it is. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
Yoga With Leta →
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Think of SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions as a starter social: low stakes, friendly room, easy exit if you need one. You probably won't use the exit. University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06 is where you need to be. Put the phone away once you're there and actually be in the room.
SAFE Lab Tutoring Sessions →
Tuesdays with Ted
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to Tuesdays with Ted is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06 is where you need to be. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Tuesdays with Ted →
Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Going solo to Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study is a power move, sugar. Claim a corner, settle in, and you'll be in a conversation before you decide to start one. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.
Asbury Campus Fellowship Bible Study →
The Pumpkin Project
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
The kind of low-pressure good time that is easy to skip and easier to love, honey. Get there near the start, find one friendly face, and let the rest of the night build itself from there. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
The Pumpkin Project →
Best Buddies Karaoke Night
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Somewhere between a talent show and a group hug, sugar. Sign up the second you walk in, order the drink that unlocks your range, and remember the crowd roots hardest for whoever commits the most. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Best Buddies Karaoke Night →
Kevin Dettmar, Punk in 50 Pieces: Punk, Post-Punk, New Wave and the Five Years that Changed Popular Music Forever
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Bring your whole personality. That's the only ticket this town really checks.
Kevin Dettmar, Punk in 50 Pieces: Punk, Post-Punk,… →
Pup and PJs
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Pup and PJs is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06 is where you need to be. Show up a little early, say hi to one stranger, and let the night do the rest.
Pup and PJs →
Wesley Study Night
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Wesley Study Night is built for the quiet ones, honey: nobody checks if you came alone, and the people-watching does half the socializing for you. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Wesley Study Night →
Kappa Phi Christian Sisterhood
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Shy? Perfect. Kappa Phi Christian Sisterhood runs on people who'd rather watch first and join in when it feels right, so you'll be in good company. Catch it at University of Tulsa on 2026-10-06. Bring someone or come solo and leave with three new numbers in your phone.
Kappa Phi Christian Sisterhood →
UKirk Campus Ministry Prayer Hour
University of Tulsa
🦩🦩🦩🦩🦩Gay-friendly
Come as you are and a little earlier than you planned, baby. The best moments happen before the room fills up, so grab a good spot, order something you like, and settle in for a genuinely nice time. It's a Tuesday thing, over at University of Tulsa. Dress how it makes you feel, roll in a little early, and thank yourself later, sugar.
UKirk Campus Ministry Prayer Hour →